Hello Auriel,

Firstly I must say how pleased I am to be making contact with you. Everyday at work I read perhaps hundreds of letters and replies, and I could read so much more as I am so very interested and inspired...Thank you.
Now onto my problem: I started going out with a Saggi man last August/September (1999), and although we can be quite opposite, I did a lot of research to back this up and try to understand the reasonings behind some of his behaviour.
I am a TYPICAL Piscean born 20/02/76, and he is a TYPICAL Sagittarian born 09/12/71 .
According to many astrologers, he has all the typical Sag traits, ie: he adores travelling, can't keep still, can't be tied down, very firey and masculine. Whereas I am the typical wet fish, ie: very home loving, love my security, overemotional and sensitive, to name a few.....

We do clash in a lot of ways due to our opposite ways, although we can't seem to let go of each other.
Is there any way I can somehow learn some little secret, perhaps, to this ever-so- difficult Saggi?

I feel a lot of love for him in my heart, but he is quite emotionally scarred due to other women, and the fact that he has been a soldier for 11 years.....
We never have a problem sexually (he is sooo masculine and I, so feminine!)although sometimes he can be overly dominating!!

I badly want him to open up and tell me how he really feels, I see something so deep in his eyes, but he can't look into mine...
What can I do about this relationship and what chance do we have of compromise and being happy?

I would REALLY appreciate your help on this one, it's been going on far too long now!

Hi Nevci,

The best thing to do is get a Lover's Report so you'll get a good idea where all the different factors of your relationship are coming from. If you understand the strengths and the weaknesses you'll then you'll have a better idea on where to compromise.

Good luck,
Auriel

You say his birth dayis 9/12? Then is he not Scorpio, instead of Sag?

sorry, I meant Virgo (not Scorpio!)

Hi PiscesDreamer,

You must be from America. In some other countries they put the date first and then the month. That's why I'm always asking people to write out the month. This one was easy to figure out because of the 20/2 for the other birthday.

Thanks,
Auriel

Hi Nevci, Piscesdreamer and Auriel,

It occurs to me that Nevci may be from India where Vedic astrology is very popular, so everybody could be right! In Vedic astrology September 12th, also our Webmaster's birthday is Sagittarius!
Regardless of your outlook, Nevci, Good Luck with your relationship!

Love and Light,
Cary

Dear Cary,

My name does not come from India, but is of Turkish origin, taken from my grandmothers name.
It's meaning is really quite beautiful: The next world/New world.

But thanks for the info about India, though. It is certainly interesting to know that my name has got meanings elsewhere in the world...

By the way, it is pronounced Nev G (the letter C in Turkish is pronounced G!)

Peace, love and lots of fish.....XXX

Dear Cary,

I forgot to also mention that you said the Vedic Astrology is September the 12th, as well as The Webmasters Birthday.....the thing is, I never mentioned his birthday as being September the 12th, but December the 12th! (hence he is a Sagittarius!)

Just thought I'd clear that up!

Warm love and Starfish....XXX

Dearest Piscesdreamer,

Thanks for your reply, much appreciated!

Just to clear up your confusion of my soldiers birthdate, it is the 9th of December, so he is neither a Scorpio or Virgo, but plain old Sagittarius!

Kisses & fishes...XXX

Dear Auriel,

Thanks for your reply, although, like I said, I have checked out lots of astrologers points on Sag & Pisces as a couple, infact, I'm overloaded with info about it, but I was hoping that as I gave our birthdates, you could say where the real problem may lie...

Thanks for the info on how you Americans write dates; I'm actually from London, United Kingdom and thats how we write our dates.
His birthday is on the 9th December 1971...Hows that?!

Lots of Love, fishes & wishes, Nevci..XX

Dear Nevci,

The Lover's Report doesn't just talk about your Sun signs. The aspects between your other planets are also taken into consideration, so your problems will show up in it. It's about your relationship specifically, not that of any Sag and Pisces. If you have any questions with it or need help with the interpretation, don't hesitate to ask!

Thanks,
Auriel

I'm sorry I caused so much confusion yesterday, I should have noticed both dates were written with the day first. Yes, I am from America. I wanted to offer SOME help concerning Sag man/Pisces woman because that is my marriage makeup (Dec. 10/Mar.4). I'll be more careful before I butt in again.

Dear Piscesdreamer,

Please don't feel like you caused any problems because you didn't. I think you were just trying to help out and there's nothing wrong with that. This is something I deal with on a regular basis. That's why I ask EVERYONE to write out the month. Please do contribute whenever you feel you can help someone else. I really appreciate the input of others.

You know, you could let Nevci know where some of the strengths and weaknesses are in your marriage with your squared Sun signs and find out if she's experiencing something similar.

Thank yOu,
Auriel

Dear Piscesdreamer,

Please don't feel that you were 'butting' in.
I really appreciated your reply!

Knowing that you are married to a Sag man interests me sooo much!

Auriel suggested that you could possibly explain some of the positives and negatives, and perhaps i could see if I am familiar with them......I could also see how you tackle them, and maybe this might contribute to saving my relationship! I would be really grateful, Piscesdreamer....

Thanx......Nevci (Oceania)

Dear Auriel,

Once again, thanx for your reply.
I think asking Piscesdreamer for her input on Sag man/Pisces woman could be very beneficial to me, so I thank you for that idea....
I was reading one of your letters and although such beautiful word were written, I took note of all your children and how into astrology they all seemed to be...How wonderful is that? I was just trying to picture your home, and I came up with the fact that it must be scented with incense often with horoscopic ornaments and hanging astrological mobiles...Maybe a couple of cats too, named after their horoscope! Cool!
Am I right?
Hope you are all keeping well anyway...XXX

Nevci,

What happened to your original user name?

No astrological mobiles here!

That would be cool if you and Piscesdreamer could help each other with your relationships.

Good luck,
Auriel

Well here I am again, because you asked! I did not want to project any of my own feelings about Sag/Pisces to Nevci (beautiful name), because it has been a difficult relationship; hopefully Nevci will get a Lovers Report and the planets in that relationship will be more beneficial than those in mine.

First of all, in "Love Signs," Linda presents this relationship as a challenge. In fact I remember reading somewhere that she says if this relationship endures we would earn an A plus from the cosmos, it could be that difficult. My experience has been a lot of tension, and Pisces just cannot cope well with that. Even though our relationship is difficult, my husband possesses many admirable qualities. Linda does point out all the possible positive aspects of Sag/Pisces even though we are natally squared.

I have learned in my long years that some things are just meant to be. So, if I had consulted astrology before marrying Sag, I may have changed my mind. But then I would not have my beautiful son. We are like bookends. However, even though arguing constantly is abhorrent to me, it seems my husband and I are trapped in that mode. What is most important to me is to have a peaceful, harmonious home. If you are not happy at home, what else is there?

I have always been attracted to the Fire Signs, even though I am Water, probably because I have an Aries moon. So I seek the fire! Also, my natal Saturn position is Sag. My mother and one brother and sister are also Sag. My husband is the only Sag I have ever had a relationship with. My best other relationships were with Aries and Leo.

After recently finding this website, I took advantage of the free reports. Surprise, surprise, my husband and I are just not compatible. While there are enough positive things to possibly make it work, after ten years I don't think there is a possibility of a true love relationship, only the getting by type that is "good enough." In the beginning, I did not see any reason why it would not work. I think what happened is that after a while it became more obvious that we just don't relate the same. I do not blame either of us. I just think it's different expectations of a relationship. My Sag would prefer to stay close to the surface while I occasionally need to relate in a much deeper way; without that, there just isn't a strong bond for me.

I think he is the way he is and that's okay. I am the way I am, and that is also okay. You know how much as a Pisces I have tried all ways to make the relationship stronger--it just does not seem destined to be a more meaningful relationship. No matter what happens in the future I don't consider the marriage a failure; I think we each had something to teach the other.

It's almost impossible to summarize things in a nutshell like this, and I do not feel qualified to give anyone else any advice. In fact, this is my second marriage! The first one was to an Aquarius which should have worked. He had a Gemini moon and was always conflicted in himself. I left because after eight years I did not think I could make the arguing stop! and we had no children yet, and I did not want to bring up children in a tense atmosphere. There must have been a rebound effect because I was attracted to #2 at first because he was so pleasant and cheerful, or so I thought! I just must bring out Mr. Hyde in these guys! So like I said, I am hardly anyone to give advice, but I am always ready to listen and share what I can.

Hope I have not discouraged you, because my situation is completely different from yours. Linda thought that in some cases, the negatives could turn out to be positives. Have you read Sun Signs, Love Signs, and Star Signs? I am loving Gooberz now, and look forward to Relationship Signs which I did not even know about until I found this website.

So even though my past is not as I would have written it, I hope I have learned all I can so that I will not repeat my mistakes. Astrology is one tool I will use to help in my future decisions. I am glad that we keep on learning throughout our entire life!

Blessings and happiness to you.

Love, Piscesdreamer

Oooh, Nevci, after I finished the above I reread your first letter above, the last paragraphs. You see something deep in his eyes, but he won't look deep in yours or let you look deep in his. That is so important. BEFORE you commit, you should make him look. I still cannot make my husband look. He has emotional scars too. I think until he can look, he can never be happy, and no one else can make him happy. After a while, you might both end up sad!

Like you, we have no physical problems sexually. It is a paradox that someone who does not want to relate emotionally can put that much in to trying to please someone sexually. My husband feels close to me when we relate physically, yet I don't feel close to him! I need that deeper emotional bond, I need the deeper parts of me, mind and spirit, to be appreciated and known by someone else.

I can relate to your empathy for your lover's past scars, but don't excuse him from trying to fulfill your needs. I learned over time that no matter how much joking, having fun, lightheartedness there is on the surface, after a while it all just seems superficial without that deep connection.

There, I just gave advice even though I didn't think I should!

Bye for now,

Love, Piscesdreamer

Just one more thing, then I'm really going to say goodbye-sorry I did not notice your name change to Oceania--also a beautiful name.

Dear Piscesdreamer,

Thank you for your wise and beautiful words. We're all lucky to have you with us.

Love,
Auriel

Piscesdreamer,

I am at my desk and should have gone home an hour ago.
I am sitting here with tears rolling down my cheeks and my hairs standing up on end at the bare facts that you pointed uot to me about Will...

Everything you wrote, all your past and present experiences are so simular to mine...It is true that the truth hurts, always.

He CANNOT look into my eyes, and I even used my little courage and asked him why. He couldn't tell me, but did admit that he couldn't.
Why can I not be the one to open him up, help him, show him that it's o.k to express and talk, communicate?
Why can he not see that I will not distrust him or be dishonest and that all I want to do is love him and be happy?
Deep, deep down I know that he's not 'the one', but I continue to go around & around in this vicious circle...

Yes, Piscesdreamer, I have read Lindas insert from Love Signs on Pisces woman, Sag man, and ,as usual, she was true to her every single word...

I have exerted so much of my energy in to this, but we haven't seen each other in about 4 months - he's in Kosovo- but he gets some leave mid November and we can't wait to see each other.

Very much like yourself, I fully need that emotional, spiritual, mental and of course physical fulfilment (a Scorpio or Leo would be wonderful! )

Thank you so much for your advice, which moved me greatly.
Please stop saying 'who am I to give advice' blah, blah, because I respect and appreciate greatly what I read from you Piscesdreamer..you are obviously a woman with a lot of marital (as well as other) experience and it means a lot to me that you took time out to write to someone, across the Atlantic that you don't even know...

Have a wonderful weekend, you certainly deserve it.....XXX

Both of you have a wonderful weekend.

Love,
Auriel

How are you today Oceania? Just saying hi. I am going on a vacation for the next 8 days so won't be around. Hope you all have a good week.

Hello Piscesdreamer,

I haven't been able to respond, due to my working life (haven't always got access to a computer).
How was your holiday? It was a holiday, wasn't it? Did you go somewhere hot and peaceful?
Anything would beat England at the moment. We've been experiencing some hefty storms that have done damage, killed people ect...

I am feeling much better of late.
Will (my Saggi)is back real soon ( a week, I think!) and I have to say that the situation has been much better while he has been gone: definitely a 'absensce make the heart grow fonder situation'.
However, I do not know for a fact how things will be when we eventually meet (after 4/5 months).
We have been in close contact, via letters & phone-calls (ahhhhhh!).
Piscesdreamer! I have got myself into another bit of a mess! I have met a beautiful, passionate Libran man. This is so typical! I wait for my boyfriend to come home all these months, be good, and then meet an amazing Libran man just before Saggi comes home!
What a typical Pisces mess!
Have you got any opinions of those Libran men, Piscesdreamer - You KNOW I value your opinion!
I have had 2 close Libran female friends for years, but have never experienced the harmonious side of these males......

Hope you are really well, much love to you.....XXXX

If she doesn't Oceania, I know a few things about Libra men! My ex is a Libra, my father's a Libra and I'm dating a Leo with strong, strong Libra! Let me tell you every single thing Linda said about them is Sun Signs and Love Signs is absolutely true!

You're a Pisces, right? Then I'll also add this. I told you my father's a Libra. Well, my mother's a Pisces and they'll celebrate their 35th wedding anniversary in December.

Good luck to yOu,

Love and blessings,
Auriel

AAHHHhhh, what is Mercury retrograde doing now? I lost everything at the top of my computer and my edit button is missing too! I may have to add your heart later if I can't remember the link exactly. I usually click on the paste button to add the hearts.

Well, I forgot the gif but at least it's fixed now.

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Hi Oceania and Morning Storm,

Yes I was off to a wedding down South, and the weather was great. Sorry to hear about your weather. Back here in New England it did get stormy, cold, windy, and rainy also. And the leaves, leaves, wet leaves! But I love all kinds of weather, as long as people, animals, and trees don't get hurt.

All I know about Libra is ONE TIME I went to a psychic on a lunch break about 22 years ago. She read tea leaves and said VERY SOON I was going to meet a Libra named Paul. So specific, right? That weekend at a club (yes, in those days my friends and I did some club hopping), a handsome guy started talking to me. We talked easily for a couple of hours, enjoying our conversation and laughing quite a bit. When after all that I learned his name was Paul, I said, "I usually don't ask this question, believe me, but could you tell me your zodiac sign?" He said Libra. How freaky is that! He was so nice, and I was happy to go on dates with him after that. What happened though was that he came on a little too strong. He made it plain that he was searching for his future wife, and I felt like I was being tested for the possibility. He was really anxious when he brought me to dinner at his family's house on Christmas Eve, which made me too nervous to say much. On New Year's Eve, he hadn't asked me out, so I just went to a party with my friends. For me it was soon in the relationship, and at that stage I like it when the man does the inviting--call me old-fashioned, thank you! The next day, he was pouty and upset that I hadn't called him to go out on New Year's Eve. I just was not ready to commit exclusively to him because I didn't feel we knew each other enough for that yet. He really was very nice, I think he was just trying too hard to find the perfect wife. It scared me away. But of course, like I've already said to you, all Libras share some qualities but have differences due to their other planetary aspects, and I'm no astrology expert!

My other Libra experience is with the love of my life, the one I am sure is my soul mate (no, not the Sagg I married. You were saying about Pisces messes?) My soulmate is Sun Aries Moon Libra. His sun conjuncts my moon, Aries. I am Virgo rising and he is Cancer rising. All I know is that we complement each other perfectly, it is absolute heavenly bliss just to talk to him.

You asked! I found this website because I always felt Linda's portrayals of zodiac signs were eerily on target. It makes me think that astrology is one way God guides us in learning the mysteries of the universe.

Glad you said hello and hope you have a great day.

Sincerely,

Piscesdreamer

PS Oceania I forgot to say it's so nice to chat with another Pisces!

I have one girlfriend who is a Pisces. I wish she would get a computer so the three of us could chat! The first time I met her, she came to my house with my husband's friend who is now her husband. After about a half hour she said, "You're a Pisces, aren't you?" I was surprised and said yes, then thought for a few seconds, and said, "You're a Pisces too, aren't you?" Right. We then shared our mutual interest in astrology--I had been away from it for quite some time until she brought it to the surface again. We both admire Linda Goodman. I didn't read Love Signs or Star Signs until after she urged me, and they were great. Just finished Gooberz, loved it, and am going to order Rel Signs here AND a Linda Goodman calendar for her for Christmas as soon as I find my darn credit card.

She and I also had a lot of fun with numerology, which of course relates to astrology, from Star Signs and also another book with another method by Dan Millman ("The Life You Were Born to Live"). I'll have to recommend that book to everyone in Lindaland when they ask about books people liked.

I'm also glad Auriel is here to give her wise insights--we need them!

Well I'll let you go now and hope to hear from you again.

Love,

another Piscesdreamer

I can tell you Libra qualities all day long.

I think the one that was always fun is their flirtiness. Even after years of marriage, the Libra I was married to would come home from work and flirt with me. He always made me feel beautiful and wanted. Actually, he still does much to his girlfriend's distress. He's just that way though--so Libra.

Love and light,
Auriel

Amen to that one, Auriel. The same flirtiness is a trait of my man with Libra moon, especially the part of always making ou feel beautiful and wanted.

My guy's name lexigrams to SO ROMANTIC and MOST ROMANTIC MAN, as well as ROMANCE, and even EROS. Could this be due to the Libra tendencies? Also, my name is contained in his name, which I like.

It's been fun comparing notes!

Love, Piscesdreamer

Hi Everyone

I hope you don't mind me butting in here. But I am a Pisces (in a mess) due to, you guessed it a Libra male. Georgeous, makes me feel like I am the only woman in the world (even though I know they are all charmers) He also has Libra Rising.

Although I know I should, I just cannot break away. I have put an end to our relationship twice but he always manages to 'charm' me back, with his winning ways and that gorgeous smile. How can a girl resist??

Sealion

Hi Piscesdreamer,

It sounds like Libra is written ALL over him if he has ROMANCE in his name! I've found that charts and names always match up. What's his ASC?

Hi Sealion,

They're all gorgeous aren't they?! They give you gorgeous kids too! My girls are the spitting image of their father with their golden blonde hair and big blue eyes. I'm dark haired and dark eyed too and never even dreamed of having blue eyed blondes! It happened though and they're just beautiful.

BTW, it sounds like you and your Libra have karma. You should get a Lover's Report and find out what there's and how to deal with it--to your advantage!

Love and light,
Auriel

Hi Auriel and Sealion,

Yes, that Libra CHARM! Gets us every time. and those blue sky heaven eyes, with brows and lashes that turn lighter blonde in summer. Irresistable.

Auriel, sounds like you have great kids!!!!

Auriel, his ascendant is Cancer. (sun Aries, moon Libra, and asc Cancer. Mine are sun Pisces, Moon Aries, and asc Virgo.) Could you straighten me out on which sign corresponds with which traits? I used to think sun sign was dominant, but it seems now people are saying ascendant is how you appear to others, personality and appearance? I know I read it somewhere, but you always have the answers so quickly!

Thanks. Another thing about us is we are both 4's!

Love chatting with you. Talk again soon. Hope Oceania has access to another computer soon!

Piscesdreamer

Hi Auriel

I have had a Lovers Report for myself and Libra Male but although it did say good things, some of it was a bit contradictary and I know it explains about this but I do not know enough about Astrology to decide how to interpret which aspects are the most important.

Also when I wrote to you about the relationship you said that he seemed to be more interested in our finances. Or was that just a short term thing? (you see I have been in a confused state since I met this man Totally unexpected about 13 months ago. I was not looking for a relationship at the time, quite the opposite, I was avoiding 'men situautions' completely, when up he popped and wow that was it

But he has dark hair and very dark eyes, is this unusual for Librans. He has the Venus dimple though

Love
Sealion

Hi Sealion!
I'm not Libra, but I've Libra rising (influencing the way one looks like). As for me, I've blonde, curly hair, BUT my eyesbrows and eyelashes are darker than my hair (a lot darker!) My father has this, too. Blond hair with dark eyebrows and eyelashes I mean. Quite a contrast, which keeps people looking and asking me if either my hair or my eyebrowes are dyed (which isn't the case.) And I have met at least two Libra males (knowing them only in a platonic way, therefore can't say anything about their behaviour in love matters) who have dark eyes and dark hair. So, it might not be too uncommon, I guess.
Greetings
Kitty

Piscesdreamer,

I'm working on an article for Star Notes on appearance and signs right now. I hope you ordered them!

Your Sun represents who you are and you are correct about your ASC. The Moon IS also one of the main planets you lOOk at and it represents emotions.

Sealion, I looked up your charts and Moon trine Uranus is the first thing that popped out to me. That's a magnetic attraction that will bring you together intermittenly and unexpectedly. I only saw 2 karmic indicators.

I have strong Libra and have dark hair and dark eyes. I also have Venus conjunct my rising, which heavily influences my appearance. I've seen both on Libras--my family case in point.

Have a great weekend!

Love and light,
Auriel

That does sound like an interesting article, I will order Star Notes. Thanks.

PiscesD

Hello Piscesdreamer,

How are you? I really hope you are well.
Sorry it's taken me a while to write back; I did write a long letter to you last week at work, but then the computer decided to do a nasty on me, and the whole thing disappeared. It has taken me this long to get myself together, and push the annoyance to aside and begin again - whats different though this time, is that since last week so much has happened and my mind has completely turned around......

My Saggi army man got leave from Kosovo and came to see me on Tuesday evening. Now, since he's been gone, I've been dreaming up an ideal situation in my head, and hoping that the distance between us and all the missing we've been doing would bring us beautifully back together after 4-5 months...

I couldn't have been more wrong. It did not make the slightest bit of difference, and he came back exactly as he left, it was as though not a day had passed between us.
Piscesdreamer, he was just as cold, just as inaffectionate and distant as he always was.
Its like I was waiting all this time for what??? Me and my idealistic dreams....
So, I have decided that I cannot go on with this mental and emotional torture, and, I don't know if you are the same (it's one of our Piscean traits) but, I cannot do confrontation - of anything!
So I am really NOT looking forward to it, although I have been advised to do it over the phone, rather than for him to travel a long distance, and then for me to do that to him.
Wish me luck.
However - on a more positive note, the Libran man I have been seeing has really shown me a beautiful light in this situation and has shown me that being with someone can be magical and doesn't HAVE to be negative.
He really is the most beautiful man I have ever laid my eyes upon - in every aspect, and after seeing him for a couple of months and then Mr.Saggi coming back, the difference was so apparent! So much so, why should I settle for less?

These Libran men certainly do have a wonderful charm about them (and by the way, he does have an amazing dimple!)and I truely believe that he came in to my life for a reason. He brings so much positivity out of me and makes me feel like the most beautiful girl in the world - which is unbelieveably flattering, as I have never seen any man so stunning!
We have a 'beauty reflecting beauty' situation here (anything to do with Pisces planets & Libran planets?!)

One problem: For reasons I cannot state, he will never be exclusively mine and it breaks me, although I have known this from day one and strongly feel that he wasn't meant to be for me, but he was definitely sent to me for a reason.

I hope you are well...You are from the States, aren't you? How are those thanksgiving preparations going?!!!

Much love to you.....Thanks for taking time out to read about my Pisceaness!!! XXXX

Hi Everyone!

I'm a bit confused about something, so someone please explain!!

Are there 2 Piscesdreamers, and if so, how do we differenciate between the two?!

Could we call the first one PD1, then the second PD2?????!!!

Or have I imagined all of this?

Oceania,

When a name is already in use, the computer won't allow someone else to register with it as well. What makes you think there would be two Piscesdreamers?

Love and light,
Auriel

Hi Oceania,

It was so nice of you to write back to me. Sorry your long letter last week crashed. I have been wondering how you were.

It sounds good that you have been shown that there is so much more possible in a relationship. I liked it when you said, "Why settle for less?" Right.

It's such an AMAZING parallel to me when you now talk about your Libra man. Especially how he makes you feel so beautiful. Auriel also said that about her Libra. My love is Libra moon, which covers emotions, and even though his sun is not Libra that quality comes out so strongly.

It's also amazing that you say he might never be yours. Like you said, you have been shown the possibilities of a beautiful relationship, and maybe that is what you needed to see so that you would know where you stood with your soldier. My Libra man might never be "mine" either, but he definitely came to me for a teaching purpose.

I am glad you have had some happy times. It makes life more wonderful, doesn't it?

It is still early to be getting ready for Thanksgiving. That's on the 23rd. But sure have been raking a lot of leaves!!

Nice talking to you again.

Love,

Piscesdreamer
P.S. Could it be that you thought there were two of me because on some days I seem to be swimming upstream and others I am going with the current? Our Pisces duality you know.

Hello again Piscesdreamer,

I love recieving your replies, they are so heartwarming and soothing - thank you.

The reason why I thought there were two of you was because one of your replies to someone was signed 'another Piscesdreamer' on this page.....Oh well! A bit of confusion..it always seems to happen via these computers...

It's true, and we all seem to agree so, that these Libran men reflect and emit so much beauty, in my case too, Piscesdreamer, I strongly believe he has come into my life for a reason (I am a very strong believer in fate) and this vicious circle with Mr.Saggi has gone on long enough.
He has really darkened my days with so much negativity, causing low self esteem (not me), lacking in confidence (so not me!) and sadness all round during his presence (very not me!!).
Not to worry - Mr.Libra has walked into my life like a superman and has turned it all around, shining happy and bright colours all over me, to elliminate all else.

Thanks for your kind attention, Piscesdreamer.
I would LOVE to know more about you, but I really don't mind what you say ( I would never dream of prying - another typical Piscean trait!).
If I don't hear from you today, then I will have access on Monday and there on everyday for 2 weeks, so I am really looking forward to hearing from you.

Have a wonderful weekend, and keep raking up those leaves!!
P.S Did you have a good Halloween? We don't celebrate that much over here in England, but I know you lot in The States celebrate big time!
I love Halloween - even if I don't do anything, I will always make a point of carving a pumpkin, every year without fail. I'm very traditional like that!
Love to you PD.......XXX

Good Morning Oceania,

Finally I have access to my computer today. My son is home from school due to Veterans' Day celebrations, which are really being celebrated tomorrow! But it is a rainy day and a nice day to snuggle in with him. We are recharging the camcorder so later today he can watch old home movies of himself!

He is eight years old and definitely an old soulmate of mine. I know this even though I have not gotten to our comparison charts yet. We do celebrate Halloween and all traditional holidays big time especially because of him. This year he wanted to be a "scary ghost"--easy!

I think I wrote "another Piscesdreamer" on another thread because I was addressing another Pisces and we know we are all dreamers to an extent. All of a sudden this year that has been a major conscious theme for me--dreaming, dreams, how they work--as well as angels, whether they are the kind we envision as spiritual entities or whether they are just our Higher Selves? Don't know yet. Anyways even though I am having a very mixed up year (more messes for Pisces) and am not sure how it will all turn out, somehow I know it will be for the best.

When I read the things you write I definitely identify with you--there has to be something to these sunsigns. I am so happy that you were shown IN TIME, BEFORE committing your life to another, that you deserve to be happy. I think sometimes when people are wondering whether or not "this is the one," they rationalize that maybe this is my only chance, I shouldn't let it go, I don want to end up alone; it does not feel romantically right, but maybe there is no such thing; if we work at it, it will all turn out better; etc. etc. But now we have both been shown that there REALLY IS such a thing as love that feels right, that it is such a nice thing to be truly appreciated. By the way, did you say how you met your Libra man who has turned your world upside down? Something tells me there is a little story to it. Did you meet him while temping?

That's another parallel with us. In the past I did a little temping, and it suited me to see firsthand what a company was really like. I liked being able to meet lots of people and experiment with a few different types of job. The temp positions nearly always led to a permanent job offer. Do you want to remain a temp? I think that suits Pisces with our flexibility. On the one hand you never know exactly where you'll be one month to the next, but you have more freedom to choose when and where you want to work. You like the communications field--that's Pisces to a tee, isn't it?

I have worked in MANY different jobs. Most recently I have worked in our town schools (where I was led by my son). The last two years I had a fulltime school teaching assistant job working with special needs kids. I am also an artist and created a lot of visual aids and materials for the classrooms. This year I am occasionally subbing to keep in touch, and I am supposed to be creating fine art at home! Painting and drawing. Haven't accomplished much, too much going on all the time. But it is time to nail myself down. Every day the daily horoscope has been like a cheerleader urging me to go for it, and this is my chance.

Well that is a long enough note about me for now. At least you have the tip of the iceberg.

I'm glad we met here and can stay in touch. It is always nice to hear from you. All because of our Saggi men!

It's about 11 am here, so you might get this before you take off for the weekend. If not, hope you have a good one.

Love,

Piscesdreamer