Dear I luv Linda,

Hi. I hope you don't mind me coming in here.
Just been reading your thread and felt that I wanted to say hello to you and wish luck and strength. I'm an Aries though i've never been out with one - I seem to always end up with leo's.
Thankyou for your post in my thread.
You're right about the advise you gave me on suffering, about how, often, pain is a test for us, a journey which, if we earn it, can lead us to great happiness. Though I'm sure you weren't talking about the kind of pain we knowingly inflict upon ourselves or
willingly allow to permeate our lives.
You sound as though you've had a very difficult life both emotionally and phisically and although you're young, you're old enough to decide that you that you don't have to settle anymore for less than you deserve - again both emotionally and phisically. You have to be your own best friend first. I'm sure your Aries man is good or you wouldn't love him but I really hope that you think deeply about all these wise and caring words from everyone here.
You have to love yourself and be good to yourself and a huge part of that is reflected in the people you allow to love you and be close to you.
You alone, instinctively know what's best for you...but it's a choice you have to make not because it's the lesser of two evils.
Believe me, being alone and loving yourself is a million times better than being part of a couple and feeling lonely...That dries your soul eventually.
Just a few thoughts...
I'm praying for you and wishing you a clear mind and a tranquil heart to help you make the best possible decision for your soul.
Mostly, as Fushcia so rightly said, wishing you pressure-free, guilt-free, freedom of choice.

Love and a hug,
loush

I want to thank you all so much for all your help and wonderful, caring advise. i hope everyone is doing really good and i wish you all the sweetest dreams
LUv,
iLuVLInDa

That is so sweet...

Fuchsia...

P.S. Thank you...

[This message has been edited by fuchsia (edited 03-05-2001).]