I am a novice when it comes to astrology and would appreciate some assistance in interpreting my relationship:
me: 4/2/62 10:50pm Joliet, IL
he: 12/14/63 2am Baltimore, MD

I had a "feeling" about him before we even spoke, but our relationship is progressing slowly. Yes, I am an Aries and yes, I am aware I have patience issues! However, I have been working on them and they are getting better. I am looking for insight on the strength of our relationship and keys to developing the bond. Like I said, I have a feeling about him and I don't want to blow it by being impatient. I sense this is my year to find love as I am successful in all other aspects. Love has been elusive, but I am ready now -- and I know he is too. So, how do we look together? Thanks!

hi sobeit. I truly hate to be the bearer of bad news,but although you may feel this is the man for you,I think someone else will be coming your way. There isnt a lot of glue in this synastry,..yes,there are positive and negative aspects,but the synastry wheel itself isnt too positive in the way of a romantic relationship. I would even go so far as to say his birthtime could be off.
I do see some draw there,IF his time is right,as that would put your sun on his descendent,and your venus in his 7th house. Your tied feelings to him may be with the positive neptune aspects of his to your moon and mars..(this can give a spiritual and/or psychic connection)..but there is also a bit of harsh karma in the charts. It may rear its head in a couple of months,when saturn and the north node are conjuncting your progressed venus in your 7th house.

Saturn AND Pluto will also be doing a square to your natal mars around this time...and saturn squaring your natal moon shortly after. You need to be prepared for this energy.

There is a karmic axis which is VERY strong coming up at the end of May and early June for the world in general. Unfortunately this same set of aspects hits directly in your personal chart. Since your progressed mars is 18 degrees in Aries,this MAY help lesson any blows. I feel it only fair to warn you the next few months could be a bit rough..its best to know. This is a passing influence..always for lessons and growth. With the nodes involved,its karmic..(and fated.) You'll need to go with the flow.
Im sorry I wasnt able to tell you what you wanted to hear.

You may want to double check his birthtime.

Aries -

Thanks for your input. I've had plenty of bad times in the last few years (my father died - my mother almost died - my "almost" fiancee (gemini) had a change of heart. I don't think anything can come my way that will knock me down any further than I've already been! One of my favorite sayings I cling to is "This too shall pass."

As for the Sag, it has been slow going, but I am going to continue to be optomistic as in the past, I believe my own doubts have sabotaged things. Since I've dated some men where there was no connection, I'm at least happy to hear there is some connection! I asked him for his birth time in a rather off the cuff manner, so I'm not positive it is right but would assume it is close. He is actually a twin - don't know if that matters?

As far as marriage and children for me, can you tell anything from my natal chart?

Thanks!
SoBeIt