Hey Y'all

Have been interested in a close friend of five years for about the entire time we've known each other, but several factors have prevented us from ever divulging how we feel about each other. I am pretty sure my feelings are reciprocated by what we've told each other and comments from a mutual friend.

I looked at our charts with Linda's Relationship Signs book and there was something that bothered me, but now that I look I cannot find the specific aspect. There was something written about 'emotional violence.' I'm not sure what this means. Can anyone explain it?

Also, could I get an opinion on our charts? I'm too emotionally involved to be impartial and I tend I gloss over the challenges, thinking that we'd *never* have problems! Isn't my head in the clouds?

Since he's pretty religious and probably thinks astrology is bunk, I can't press him to find out his birth time without coming up with a really creative reason for needing it.

This is our 411:
Amissa
12 January 1978 10.35 PM Taft, Texas
Joe
12 January 1976 Houston, Texas

Me Him
Sun Cap Cap
Moon Pis Tau? Gem? [I think Tau]
Merc Sag Aqu
Venus Cap Sag
Mars Leo Gem
Jup Gem Ari
Sat Leo Leo
Uran Sco Sco
Nept Sag Sag
Pluto Lib Lib

Any opinions? There seems to be a few powerful negative aspects, but do the positive aspects supplement them for balance? Specifically, his Venus is trine to my Pluto, but my Venus is square his Pluto. Any insight?

Mucho gracias - thank you very much!

* Amissa

Hi Amissa

Without both times of birth - it's really not possible to get a totally accurate comparison.

Have you ever looked at
www.astro.com

Take a look at that site. You can put both chart details in ...but again it needs a time of birth for partner comparisons. You could always use 12 noon as a default time, but it obviously will not be totally correct
..unless he was born at 12 noon.

Maybe you could ask him if he is a day or night person..........tell him that you read somewhere that people born at night were supposed to be night people

Sue

Cat

I did ask him whether he was a day or night person & I don't recall his answer, but I have noticed that he really likes sunrises and sunlight...

I have been to astro.com & looked over the info many times. I've been just about anywhere that gives a free compatiability chart to see what they have to say! I haven't found a site that I liked enough to buy a report from [except perhaps this one].

Thanks!

Hi Amissa,

Astro.com does a compatablilty analysis on the interactive section. However it is done on a composite chart.

I ran a sysnistry chart for you earlier on but didn't see anything majorly worrying...but then I only had a wee look. Now I have no idea which aspects you were refering too. Computer charts are more acurate in a literal sence.

I will take a further look

Lov n hugs

Lis

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Hi Amissa

OK I ran both of your charts (I used 12 noon as a default for Joe).
If you use your LG relationship book you'll find most of the interpretations for the aspects (but not all)
You are Chart one
Joe is chart two

Hope this helps you out for now
Love
Sue

Chart 1 = Amissa Taft Jan. 12 1978, 22h35
Chart 2 = Joe (Amissa b/f) Houston, Texas Jan. 12 1976, 12h00

MAJOR ASPECTS:

Longitudes referring to Tropical Zodiac
CHART 1 CHART 2
Sun (CAP.22°38')-Sun (CAP.21°40'): Conjunction (= 0°)orb= 00°58'
Sun (CAP.22°38')-Moo.(TAU.27°14'): Trine (=120°)orb= 04°36'
Sun (CAP.22°38')-Jup.(ARI.16°36'): Square (= 90°)orb= 06°03'
Sun (CAP.22°38')-Sat.(LEO 0°09'): Opposition (=180°)orb= 07°31'
Sun (CAP.22°38')-NNd.(SCO.19°52'): Sextile (= 60°)orb= 02°46'
Sun (CAP.22°38')-SNd.(TAU.19°52'): Trine (=120°)orb= 02°46'
Sun (CAP.22°38')-Chi.(ARI.23°43'): Square (= 90°)orb= 01°04'
Sun (CAP.22°38')-ASC.(ARI.22°50'): Square (= 90°)orb= 00°12'
Sun (CAP.22°38')-MC. (CAP.14°44'): Conjunction (= 0°)orb= 07°54'
Moo.(PIS.17°22')-Sun (CAP.21°40'): Sextile (= 60°)orb= 04°18'
Moo.(PIS.17°22')-Ven.(SAG.13°33'): Square (= 90°)orb= 03°49'
Moo.(PIS.17°22')-Mar.(GEM.15°10'): Square (= 90°)orb= 02°13'
Moo.(PIS.17°22')-Nep.(SAG.12°55'): Square (= 90°)orb= 04°27'
Moo.(PIS.17°22')-NNd.(SCO.19°52'): Trine (=120°)orb= 02°30'
Moo.(PIS.17°22')-SNd.(TAU.19°52'): Sextile (= 60°)orb= 02°30'
Moo.(PIS.17°22')-MC. (CAP.14°44'): Sextile (= 60°)orb= 02°38'
Mer.(SAG.29°17')-BMoo(ARI. 1°01'): Square (= 90°)orb= 01°44'
Mer.(SAG.29°17')-Chi.(ARI.23°43'): Trine (=120°)orb= 05°34'
Mer.(SAG.29°17')-ASC.(ARI.22°50'): Trine (=120°)orb= 06°27'
Mer.(SAG.29°17')-PFor(LEO 28°24'): Trine (=120°)orb= 00°53'
Ven.(CAP.20°29')-Sun (CAP.21°40'): Conjunction (= 0°)orb= 01°11'
Ven.(CAP.20°29')-Moo.(TAU.27°14'): Trine (=120°)orb= 06°45'
Ven.(CAP.20°29')-Jup.(ARI.16°36'): Square (= 90°)orb= 03°53'
Ven.(CAP.20°29')-Sat.(LEO 0°09'): Opposition (=180°)orb= 09°41'
Ven.(CAP.20°29')-NNd.(SCO.19°52'): Sextile (= 60°)orb= 00°36'
Ven.(CAP.20°29')-SNd.(TAU.19°52'): Trine (=120°)orb= 00°36'
Ven.(CAP.20°29')-Chi.(ARI.23°43'): Square (= 90°)orb= 03°14'
Ven.(CAP.20°29')-ASC.(ARI.22°50'): Square (= 90°)orb= 02°22'
Ven.(CAP.20°29')-MC. (CAP.14°44'): Conjunction (= 0°)orb= 05°45'
Mar.(LEO 5°06')-Mer.(AQU. 9°05'): Opposition (=180°)orb= 03°59'
Mar.(LEO 5°06')-Sat.(LEO 0°09'): Conjunction (= 0°)orb= 04°57'
Mar.(LEO 5°06')-Ura.(SCO. 6°45'): Square (= 90°)orb= 01°39'
Mar.(LEO 5°06')-Nep.(SAG.12°55'): Trine (=120°)orb= 07°49'
Mar.(LEO 5°06')-BMoo(ARI. 1°01'): Trine (=120°)orb= 04°05'
Jup.(GEM.28°22')-BMoo(ARI. 1°01'): Square (= 90°)orb= 02°39'
Jup.(GEM.28°22')-Chi.(ARI.23°43'): Sextile (= 60°)orb= 04°39'
Jup.(GEM.28°22')-ASC.(ARI.22°50'): Sextile (= 60°)orb= 05°32'
Jup.(GEM.28°22')-PFor(LEO 28°24'): Sextile (= 60°)orb= 00°02'
Sat.(LEO 29°31')-Moo.(TAU.27°14'): Square (= 90°)orb= 02°16'
Sat.(LEO 29°31')-Chi.(ARI.23°43'): Trine (=120°)orb= 05°48'
Sat.(LEO 29°31')-ASC.(ARI.22°50'): Trine (=120°)orb= 06°40'
Sat.(LEO 29°31')-PFor(LEO 28°24'): Conjunction (= 0°)orb= 01°06'
Ura.(SCO.15°47')-Sun (CAP.21°40'): Sextile (= 60°)orb= 05°53'
Ura.(SCO.15°47')-Mer.(AQU. 9°05'): Square (= 90°)orb= 06°42'
Ura.(SCO.15°47')-Ura.(SCO. 6°45'): Conjunction (= 0°)orb= 09°01'
Ura.(SCO.15°47')-NNd.(SCO.19°52'): Conjunction (= 0°)orb= 04°06'
Ura.(SCO.15°47')-SNd.(TAU.19°52'): Opposition (=180°)orb= 04°06'
Ura.(SCO.15°47')-MC. (CAP.14°44'): Sextile (= 60°)orb= 01°02'
Nep.(SAG.17°10')-Ven.(SAG.13°33'): Conjunction (= 0°)orb= 03°36'
Nep.(SAG.17°10')-Mar.(GEM.15°10'): Opposition (=180°)orb= 02°00'
Nep.(SAG.17°10')-Jup.(ARI.16°36'): Trine (=120°)orb= 00°34'
Nep.(SAG.17°10')-Nep.(SAG.12°55'): Conjunction (= 0°)orb= 04°15'
Nep.(SAG.17°10')-Plu.(LIB.11°44'): Sextile (= 60°)orb= 05°26'
Nep.(SAG.17°10')-Chi.(ARI.23°43'): Trine (=120°)orb= 06°33'
Nep.(SAG.17°10')-ASC.(ARI.22°50'): Trine (=120°)orb= 05°41'
Plu.(LIB.16°43')-Sun (CAP.21°40'): Square (= 90°)orb= 04°57'
Plu.(LIB.16°43')-Mer.(AQU. 9°05'): Trine (=120°)orb= 07°38'
Plu.(LIB.16°43')-Ven.(SAG.13°33'): Sextile (= 60°)orb= 03°10'
Plu.(LIB.16°43')-Mar.(GEM.15°10'): Trine (=120°)orb= 01°34'
Plu.(LIB.16°43')-Jup.(ARI.16°36'): Opposition (=180°)orb= 00°08'
Plu.(LIB.16°43')-Nep.(SAG.12°55'): Sextile (= 60°)orb= 03°49'
Plu.(LIB.16°43')-Plu.(LIB.11°44'): Conjunction (= 0°)orb= 05°00'
Plu.(LIB.16°43')-Chi.(ARI.23°43'): Opposition (=180°)orb= 06°59'
Plu.(LIB.16°43')-ASC.(ARI.22°50'): Opposition (=180°)orb= 06°07'
Plu.(LIB.16°43')-MC. (CAP.14°44'): Square (= 90°)orb= 01°59'
NNd.(LIB. 9°05')-Mer.(AQU. 9°05'): Trine (=120°)orb= 00°01'
NNd.(LIB. 9°05')-Ven.(SAG.13°33'): Sextile (= 60°)orb= 04°28'
NNd.(LIB. 9°05')-Mar.(GEM.15°10'): Trine (=120°)orb= 06°04'
NNd.(LIB. 9°05')-Jup.(ARI.16°36'): Opposition (=180°)orb= 07°30'
NNd.(LIB. 9°05')-Nep.(SAG.12°55'): Sextile (= 60°)orb= 03°49'
NNd.(LIB. 9°05')-Plu.(LIB.11°44'): Conjunction (= 0°)orb= 02°38'
NNd.(LIB. 9°05')-BMoo(ARI. 1°01'): Opposition (=180°)orb= 08°05'
NNd.(LIB. 9°05')-MC. (CAP.14°44'): Square (= 90°)orb= 05°39'
SNd.(ARI. 9°05')-Mer.(AQU. 9°05'): Sextile (= 60°)orb= 00°01'
SNd.(ARI. 9°05')-Ven.(SAG.13°33'): Trine (=120°)orb= 04°28'
SNd.(ARI. 9°05')-Jup.(ARI.16°36'): Conjunction (= 0°)orb= 07°30'
SNd.(ARI. 9°05')-Nep.(SAG.12°55'): Trine (=120°)orb= 03°49'
SNd.(ARI. 9°05')-Plu.(LIB.11°44'): Opposition (=180°)orb= 02°38'
SNd.(ARI. 9°05')-BMoo(ARI. 1°01'): Conjunction (= 0°)orb= 08°05'
SNd.(ARI. 9°05')-MC. (CAP.14°44'): Square (= 90°)orb= 05°39'
BMoo(CAN. 5°44')-Ura.(SCO. 6°45'): Trine (=120°)orb= 01°01'
BMoo(CAN. 5°44')-Plu.(LIB.11°44'): Square (= 90°)orb= 06°00'
BMoo(CAN. 5°44')-BMoo(ARI. 1°01'): Square (= 90°)orb= 04°43'
BMoo(CAN. 5°44')-MC. (CAP.14°44'): Opposition (=180°)orb= 09°00'
Chi.(TAU. 1°08')-Sat.(LEO 0°09'): Square (= 90°)orb= 00°59'
Chi.(TAU. 1°08')-Ura.(SCO. 6°45'): Opposition (=180°)orb= 05°37'
Chi.(TAU. 1°08')-Chi.(ARI.23°43'): Conjunction (= 0°)orb= 07°26'
Chi.(TAU. 1°08')-ASC.(ARI.22°50'): Conjunction (= 0°)orb= 08°18'
Chi.(TAU. 1°08')-PFor(LEO 28°24'): Trine (=120°)orb= 02°44'
ASC.(VIR.24°23')-Sun (CAP.21°40'): Trine (=120°)orb= 02°43'
ASC.(VIR.24°23')-Moo.(TAU.27°14'): Trine (=120°)orb= 02°51'
ASC.(VIR.24°23')-Sat.(LEO 0°09'): Sextile (= 60°)orb= 05°46'
ASC.(VIR.24°23')-NNd.(SCO.19°52'): Sextile (= 60°)orb= 04°31'
ASC.(VIR.24°23')-SNd.(TAU.19°52'): Trine (=120°)orb= 04°31'
ASC.(VIR.24°23')-BMoo(ARI. 1°01'): Opposition (=180°)orb= 06°38'
MC. (GEM.24°11')-Mar.(GEM.15°10'): Conjunction (= 0°)orb= 09°01'
MC. (GEM.24°11')-BMoo(ARI. 1°01'): Square (= 90°)orb= 06°50'
MC. (GEM.24°11')-Chi.(ARI.23°43'): Sextile (= 60°)orb= 00°28'
MC. (GEM.24°11')-ASC.(ARI.22°50'): Sextile (= 60°)orb= 01°20'
MC. (GEM.24°11')-PFor(LEO 28°24'): Sextile (= 60°)orb= 04°14'
PFor(SCO.19°07')-Sun (CAP.21°40'): Sextile (= 60°)orb= 02°33'
PFor(SCO.19°07')-Moo.(TAU.27°14'): Opposition (=180°)orb= 08°07'
PFor(SCO.19°07')-NNd.(SCO.19°52'): Conjunction (= 0°)orb= 00°45'
PFor(SCO.19°07')-SNd.(TAU.19°52'): Opposition (=180°)orb= 00°45'
PFor(SCO.19°07')-MC. (CAP.14°44'): Sextile (= 60°)orb= 04°23'

The above aspects were when I ran a synastry chart

Hmmm Tinks just read your post. What default time did you use as I don't see those Uranus aspects you mention??
Love
Sue

hi cat only just saw this...12 noon. Just check the data...I had him down for 1876 oops!!

Ok Uranus squar emars mars opposite merc: Now good in terms of keeping the peace, it suggests a quite argumentative realtionship. Whihc can add to the sparkle but may prove to be difficult in the long run.

Neptune oppositing Mars and neptune squaring moon. There can be an element of deception on both sides.

Saturn square Moon, restrictions of emotions. potentially this can create tension which leads to arguments. Saturn wants to teach the moon but the moon wont like it.

The sun/sun-venus conj will be a very strong harmonious aspect. His neptune conjunct his venus will make him a bit of a dreamer as he may have perfect illusions of what he wants from his love life.

L

Good news! I asked for his birth time, claiming that I was being driven nuts in testing my hypothesis over day/night people being born respectively in those hours. Hopefully he will tell me soon!

Ami

Let us know as soon as you get it

Hope things are going well with both of you.
Love
Sue

PS: Maybe you should just say "OK what time where you born" ......
I was taught "If you don't ask you don't get"
Plus what have you got to lose??? Go for it

I got it! I got his birthtime:

Here's the 411 again

Me
12 January 1978
10.35pm CST [13 jan 4.35 GMT]
Taft, Texas 27N59 097W24

Joe
12 January 1076
2.04pm CST [20.04 GMT]
Houston, Texas 29N46 095W22

Any insights, important aspects to take seriously, etc. would be most appreciated.

Thanks!