Hi Sue

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Thanks for the new link... I haven't gotten to any of them yet, as there are a few things I NEED to get to before I can read and do research for fun.

As far as the Saturn/Uranus thing goes... it's all about getting more in touch with the more abstract (4th dimentional) spiritual side of life, which is a bit more difficult to do then dealing with linear time as we know it here on the 3 dimentional Earth plane.
Things that help me to get more in touch with that part of myself are being in touch with nature by either planting, hiking in the woods (or walking in the local park), fishing (or hanging out by a pond while others fish - like I did yesterday), watching a sunrise or sunset, taking a drive, yoga/stretching, meditation, and taking care of my health by what I put in my body. If I don't do the later with diet and exercise, I find it is very hard for me to access my spiritual self... Alot of these things are mentioned in a thread I started in the
Creating Your Own Reality forum called
Protecting the Aura , and there are some good thoughts about living in the present and the different aspects of time on the
Time thread there as well.
I'm so sorry to hear that your divorce (?) has been such a battle, and has taken so long. Thank goodness there was a two year limit on how long the process could drag out in Pennsylvania. My seperation was close to the same time as yours (end of 98), only it was my ex who ended things (he was really doing me a favor), and me who was resistant to giving him a divorce at first... but after about 15 months, I was ready to settle, but then he wasn't. All in all it took a little over two years before we were divorced...
I can imagine that how your relationship has ended (or not for that matter), has put a damper on meeting and trying to move forward in the love life area. How

... I'll bet it has been very much a learning and growing experience for you though.

I'll send positive thoughts and light to your situation coming to an end in the best of possible ways on 4/29.