Me (female): 11/3/63, Sault Ste. Marie, Michigan at 8:00 p.m.
The other person (male): 3/12/59, Muncie, Indiana at 1:00 p.m.

THANKS!

Hi Velentine,

Well right off the bat his Sun squares your moon, which is a strong connectrion if not the easiest. You're both water signs, so it's easy for you to relate emotionally, but your airy Gemini Moon can inject some emotional distance to his Piscean Sun, so the connection could blow hot and cold. Venus and Mars are nicely connected, with his Jupiter conjunct both of these planets in your chart, while your Jupiter widely conjuncts his Venus and sextiles his Mars. Your Venus also trines his ascendant - a "karmic" connection - while your Mars trines his midheaven and Jupiter conjuncts it. At first blush I'd say that you are likely to be the dominant one in the partnership, and that's perfectly alright as long as dominant isn't dominating. You have both harmonious and harsh mutual aspects between your charts, but it looks like there are more strong positive bonds than difficult ones overall.

Sorry I don't have time to do a real analysis right now (although some others here may turn their eyes to it ), but in the meantime here is a computerized report that will give you some insight into some of the more important factors. (The interpretations for this report were done by astrologer Gina Ronco for Kepler software, and are pretty good.) I've attached it to this post, so you can read it by clicking the Attachment link.

Enjoy!

Love,
Greg

Gee thanks, Greg
However, I did not see the link you mentioned. I was curious about a certain clairvoyance I get with this person . . .I can hear his thoughts and can literally see him going about on his everyday chores and such. What astrological significance is there in the synastry? Or do I just have "it" naturally? I've never been able to do this with anyone but him?

Thanks;)

Valentine just above my last post (right after the date) you will see the word "Attachment." If you click on that, it will open up the attached report.

Your Sun and Mercury both conjuncting his Neptune would be one indicator of a psychic connection between you.

Love,
Greg

Valentine, Greg is exactly right about those particular connections! Ide like to take a look later tonight but I need to know if those birth times are only guesstimates or exact?
Thanks,

WoW Just read the link . . . ALOT like us!

Aries: My time is exact. I know that he has a Cancer ascendant. He gave the time, so I assume it is correct.

This relationship is really weird . . .we will go for periods of time without seeing each other, and then out of the blue, I will hear his voice saying where he is and to come there, and sure enough he is there! He says I "haunt" him and that he thinks of me every minute of every day, he has even asked me if I practice voodoo! He speaks ALOT about marrying me to me and our freinds, but I am not so sure if he is serious about going through with it! But the weirdest thing about the relationship is the fact that I can hear and see him without ever being around him!

Hi Valentine, sorry for the long delay!
As Greg mentioned, that merc(and sun) conjunction of yours to his neptune is key to what you describe, especially when its in his 4th house.
Another key aspect between you is his progressed venus/natal mars conjunction on your natal moon in Gemini.

Great for communication in this earth realm or the other realm. Also his merc trined your mars.
Looks like lots to talk about!

ide like to have gone into this better, but time is short. It looks like you may have some changes in the work/career area coming up, if not already.
I had thought maybe you both work together, but in rereading your post, it doesnt sound like it.

Not too sure if you'll marry him, there could be a bit of a stress on the relationship coming up. I dont think its overly serious.
Note I said could be. Whats showing could also be financial restrictions. I would almost guess its something with work in both cases.
I'll be back within a couple of weeks if you need anything more in regards to this.

Thanks Aries!
No problem on the delay . . we are ALL busy;) I am sort of getting used to the clairvoyance part in this relationship, it is becoming an everyday thing! Yes, we are both in financial straights right now. As a matter of fact, he mentioned a week or two ago, out of the blue, that he had nothing to offer me regarding money . . I never asked him or insinuated such!! Don't know why he said that? I am going back to school, and plan to open a salon when I get out, he has not returned to work due to an accident at work - he is on workers comp right now.

It's funny that you mentioned marriage. This guy seems obsessed with marriage, he is always talking about it to me and his freinds . . this is something he wants . . .It is not on my mind right now, however, but he has always told our freinds that he WILL marry me!??

Thanks for your insight on this. This is a very intense relationship and sometimes it is difficult to know what "plane" we are on.

Valentine

thanks for the clarification Val! A chart is truly a reflection of whats going on while on this earth, and I find the progressions are more to do with soul choices!
With his venus progressing to his mars and about to hit on your moon, I wouldnt at all be surprised by a proposal! Thats a key point to watch, and any future lunations or hits by transits may trigger something even deeper. T. neptune is getting close to trining that spot...so a double dose of it to ya!

I understand the strength of the hit on someones neptune in the 4th...thats a very spiritual connection...a real been-there-beforish type of feeling.
I never like to prewarn about the finances, and always hope its something the person is already experiencing so Im not the bearer of 'bad news'.
Thanks again.

Happy dreams and connections and non-verbal communications!

WOW Aries, that's deep!
Can you give me some kind of warning timeline estimate? Like when will his Venus hit Mars/Moon . . . .and the Neptune trine, when will that occur?

Hey Aries and Greg;)

Just wanted to check in with you guys and am still wondering when this progression "hit" will occur. He starts back to work August 1st, thank goodness! I am in school, but of course you don't get paid to go to school! Oh well, maybe a night job will pop up for me soon!

Anyways, hope you guys are doing well:D

Valentine

Wow! This was a post of mine from long ago . . .since that time, he did propose and we married in Las Vegas in 2006. However, financially we have not progressed and certain "negative traits" of his that I was not aware of in the beginning, have surfaced. We have been "spinning our wheels" for a long time and never seem to get anywhere. There is absolutely no iniative coming from his end.

Personally, however, I have been through several years of college and about to proceed to law school this year and I have accomplished many things in my own personal life.

Regretfully, over the past three years, I have found myself realizing that this marriage was a mistake and have been longing for the one that I was married to previously for 13 years.

If someone to care to do a chart for me to look for any forthcoming reconciliation with my ex, I would appreciate it!

Me: 11/3/63, Sault Ste. Marie, Michigan @ 8:00 pm
Ex: 11/14/59, Birmingham, AL @ 1:00 pm

Mourning the past . . .
Valentine

Hey Valentine
I am sorry to hear you are at a Cross Roads of this sort.
There is no pain like Heart ache.
No better teacher either.

However! You are Alive! and Aware! of your Self!
That is the good news.
Even if is is trying or pain full right now.
Your light shines through...
even in your few Words.

I will check into what I now on the subject here...
although I find the Human Heart
quite the enigma when it comes to charts and grids.
Only YOU know what YOU want, so to speak
but as Linda has said, the Stars compel....

Pulling out some books and will try to get back ASAP.


Hold on tight to Your Dream.


Chahles

"When the student is ready, the teacher will come . . ."

Thanks for my forthcoming anticipated advice

I didn`t realize you were a fellow Michigander!

Only lived there for the 1st year of my life and then we moved, never to return

Hi Valentine,

I am so sorry to hear about your relationship woes. Are you still married to your second husband? When I saw that you and your first husband are both Scorpios I was shocked that the two of you got divorced, especially with him also having a Taurus Moon. I bet he had a hard time letting you go.

Have you talked to your first husband at all and told him how you feel about him? Do you know how he feels about you? Without knowing any of the details of what transpired between you it would be hard to say if a reconciliation between you would be possible. As Chahles said, only your two hearts will know the answer to that question.

But peeking at his chart, I do see a lovely Mercury/Jupiter conjunction in Jupiter's sign of Sagittarius which gives him a lot of potential to have a forgiving mind. And where both sextile Venus in Libra, the sign of marriage, perhaps that could extend over to a forgiving heart as well. And your Sagittarius Mars links into all that - so I do believe there is great hope for a second chance between you.

I wish you all the best Valentine and please do keep us updated on how things work out between you.

Something told me to sign on because I had a response . . .thanks Venus! I would love to tell you the whole story. I will not be able to post it right now, but look for a post from me Monday - I will spell it all out.

Also, I will be starting law school this year. I am also wondering if this is what I should do considering my age. Everyone I have talked to says, "go for it!" But what do the stars have to say? Let me know what you see. See ya Monday

Well, amazingly it looks like I have a few minutes, so I will get started. . .

My ex and I owned 10 acres, two houses, we had nice autos and plenty of money. He owned his own contruction company and was doing well. I worked as a paralegal and also made good money. I had a son from my first marriage and my ex also had full custody of his son from his first marriage. We had "blended" the kids into a tight family and the boys considered us mom and dad. My ex spent almost all of his spare time with the boys, hunting, fishing, four-wheeling, etc. We worked all the time and never went on a real family vacation - it was always my ex and the boys that went on trips - never me. I was left to myself most of the time, which I didn't mind too much, so I thought. I pretty much did what I wanted to do.

In 2002,both boys had graduated high school. Out of the blue, my law firm disintegrated and was no more, I lost the job I had worked for the past 7 years. My ex was furious besides the fact that I was crushed and totally lost! I became confused, scared to go back into the legal field and stupidly decided to go to barber school and get my license. I also got a part time job bartending on the weekends and began staying out late because of the hours. The owner of the bar came up with this off the wall rule and barred all the husbands and boyfriends from coming in the bar during our shifts. At this point, I felt like I had no family anymore and lived pretty much on my own. I met the guy that I am married to now working at that bar. He gave me the attention that I craved, so I thought that this was the guy I was supposed to be with. I began drawing up divorce papers.

You are right when you said my ex had a hard time letting go. It was a battle. I took one house, put it up for sale and gave him the other, newer house, but he insisted on living in mine after I had packed my bags and left. I had him evicted three times and could not understand why he would not live in the other house. It took my three years to sell my house because he refused to get out of it.

He called me everyday for three years, send me flowers, birthday cards, etc. I avoided him like the plague. Meanwhile, I took off to Vegas and married the guy I am with now, on a whim. I soon found out that my present husband did not like to work and had a serious drug problem which he hid from me in the beginning. I realized I had left my family for a piece of !@#$. I was in a worse position than before.

I gritted my teeth and succumbed to the new disaster that I put myself in and told myself that I deserved it. I had ripped everyone's world apart when I left my ex.

Will send PART II later . . .

Hi Valentine,

You are very welcome for the response. With all that Scorpio in your chart, it doesn't surprise me that you knew someone had replied.

You've shared quite the story so far and I'm looking forward to part II. From what you've said so far, it looks real promising that your ex would take you back if he knew you wanted him. Hopefully he hasn't since moved on to another relationship and is still free to be with you. Of course there's still the matter of getting yourself free from your current partner if you two have reached the end of your road together. Matters of the heart surely are never easy and I wish you all the best.

I will look at your chart later tonight and check out the law school angle. Though I would venture to say that if you enjoyed your work as a paralegal for the 7 years you were doing that, then going on to law school would most likely be right up your alley. But I'll let you know what jumps out when I have a peek. Have a wonderful day.

Oops! I forgot about this . . .part II. Had a busy day today, anyway, here goes . . .

When I finally found a buyer for the house, my ex ran them off several times and then became really unbearable! He began calling me an threatening me to the point where I filed suit for phone harassment. I was shocked that he showed up for court to take his punishment, but he did! Even in court that day, he insisted that I "sit next to him" and complimented every piece of clothing and jewelry I was wearing. The judge reprimanded him and we left. He kept trying to talk to me until he saw my wedding ring . . .I thought he was going into shock. All he kept saying was, "I can't believe it, no, no, no." He quit calling and I didn't hear from him for awhile.

Fast forward to last March (2010). A mutual freind of ours called me and told me that my ex's mother had passed away. I knew that he would be crushed because she was the only parent he had - his father died when he was six years old. I decided to go to the funeral because this woman had done alot for me and I got along very well with her. I saw him as soon as I walked in the funeral home, but he did not see me. I had to walk up to him and tap him on the shoulder. He was very surprised. He asked me if I would go with him to view the body, since he could not bring himself to do so. We held hands and bid his mother farewell. They should pictures of our family on a large projector - his brothers, me, my ex and the boys. It was heartbreaking. He walked me to my car, still holding my hand and told me he missed me and I said the same.

He invited me over to his younger brother's house that afternoon and I was on my way to go over there when I got a phone call from another one of our freinds that was at the funeral. They told me that my ex had a very young girl living with him and that she was pregnant!!! He never mentioned this to me at all! I turned around and went back home, not beleiving what I just heard.

He later explained that the baby was due in May. The pregnancy was a "mistake" and he did not love the girl (!?) but now there was a baby on the way and he was determined to do the right thing and take care of it.

We have met each other at restaurants and other places on numerous occasions. He says that when the baby becomes a year old, he is making a move because the girl is a drug addict and does not take care of the baby. He is not doing well right now financially. I have bought the baby clothes and things she needs here and there because I want them to be alright and do not want to see them suffer.

After all this, he says he still loves me, never got over me and would love ot get back together but doesn't want the baby to be a burden on me.

Meanwhile, back at the ranch . . .

Like I metioned earlier, my current husband, has severe addiction issues that I am learning all too well - he has kicked cocaine so far, but seems to always replace it with something else. First, it was gambling. I cannot tell you how many weekly paychecks of $700 that he has completely thrown away at the casino. He gets very mad if I don't go with him on these trips. For the past two years, I have stayed home and told him to go, whether he gets mad or not! When something comes up, like for instance, he gets sick, he whines because he has no money - he had plenty before he went to the casino.

Recently, he has started frequenting this bar after work with his co-workers. That's ok, but he goes there EVERY DAY. I have begun to get used to this, and relish the time to myself.

Now, this morning I opened the cable bill and obviously he rented a movie - porn - which has added an additional $20 to the bill in which I have to pay! DAMN!

He gets furious when I am on the computer (I take most of my college classes online), does not like me visiting freinds or family - says that "I am abandoning him" when I do.

I sat down one day with him and tried to get him to see that this is not working - he threatened divorce, so I said no more and drew up the papers. When laid out for him to sign, he got mad, punched a hole in the wall, spit his food in the floor and on the wall and took off for the casino.

Looks like I will just have to pack up one day and dissapear because I do not look forward to another confrontation with him!

I am sorry to air my dirty laundry here in front of everyone, but had to get this off my chest to people that I trust, which is this website. I have always been able to come here and get feedback and advice. Thanks everyone!! I am a very private person and this is the only place where I "expose myself."

It is embarassing that I am in this shape at my age. I had to move back in the house that I grew up in and am still here, because of this "rut" that he drags me into. I have got to get rid of him somehow.

Wow Valentine! I am totally floored by all you shared. I would love to see you have a happily ever after ending to your tragic thus far story and live the rest of your life with the one you truly love. The part about you and your ex holding hands at his mother's funeral had me in tears. From what you've shared I can see that he loves you a great deal and all the Venus in me (half of my planets plus my Ascendant are ruled by her and she's in my 1st house) is routing for the two of you.

It sounds like he's in a similar boat as you with his being involved with someone who has an addiction to drugs. Is he still planning on splitting with her this coming May? I imagine there will be quite the rocky road ahead when he goes to file for sole custody of the baby. Have you decided if you are going to get back together with him and be a mother figure to his child? Transiting Saturn is in your 5th house of children right now, so I imagine it's something you are giving a lot of heavy consideration to.

I wish you all the best with getting the divorce you seek from your current husband. Even if you did 'make a mistake' when you married him, you shouldn't have to pay for it for the rest of your life. Whatever your karmic debt may be with each other, you are free to move on once you've honored your soul contract. Transiting Pluto is currently in your 7th house so I do believe there will be an ending to your current marriage at some point during this very legnthy transit.

As far as going to law school, I say 'go for it' too. Your progressed Sun will be in Sagittarius (the natural ruler of the 9th house which is the jurisdiction of law and higher education) for another year or so and you have the Progressed Moon in the 9th house for a few more months yet. Also, your Progressed Jupiter (ruler of Sagittarius) is in your Progressed 9th house for a good long while so you have plenty of time to indulge in your legal studies. With the sign of Sagittarius intercepted in your natal 6th house, I do believe that you are well suited for work in the legal field.

All the very best to you Valentine and please do keep us posted on how you make out with everything.

Venus!
This is GREAT news. *Whew* that was alot of hard work on your part, and you don't know how much I appreciate you looking into this. When you do it yourself, you are somewhat biased as to the over all picture, so I could not do this myself THANK YOU, THANK YOU!!!

Also, my ex and I got married during a Mercury retrograde, so I knew that something about our relationship would have to be "re-done."

As for the baby, a year after the ex and I were married, we took custody of my ex's son, as well as two other boys from his ex-wife's first marriage. She was neglecting all of them and we could not stand to see them treated this way. They lived with us for two years until the grandmother came and got them. Children are special and are our future. We will only get out of them what we "put into them." Once people understand this, it might be the end to teen violence, drugs, etc. You have to invest in your future!! I would have no problem with the baby - besides, it is a girl, something I have not had yet!

Battle or not, he will get that child from the baby mama addict. I have plenty of experience in that legal aspect
I am behind him all the way!

As for my current . . .his health has taken a dive. He is on blood pressure medicine, thyroid medicine (his thyroid has completely shut down) and yet he continues to drink heavily and does not take care of himself. I feel that someone who does not appreciate the life that they have been given, should not be here - it is just a waste. I think he will eventually do himself in.

Halo Dear Valentine

I have not forgotten YOU! I apologize for the delay on my end...
as I see now you are Truly in Dire Straits here and I am sorry for that.
Although I know you are very resilient in your Path,
never to have known a Scorpion who isn't.

Never have I known a Scorpion NOT tormented by Love
in one sense or the other either....it is their nature and attribute.
Both a blessing and a curse
added to the already bleeding heart dilemma
of Being Human.

I will have some time these next few daze
to read your full story and bring my perspective to it
using Linda's knowledge
and my twisted Aquarian take on things as well.
We are all in some quagmire of some sort
and often we cannot see the forest through the trees alone.
That is why those who are hear
come here.

AS the Knowflakes who respond have told you
and you know quite well....
There is a great Force in Numbers
and the Humans hear
care a great deal about the Heart.

Especially one a concerned and loving as yours.

Follow IT and Know you know
what is right.
Words and charts can only offer solutions and remedies.

Considering this is my favorite day of the year, I would like to wish everyone here HAPPY VALENTINE's DAY!!! I truly hope that everyone is with their nearest and dearest.

Of course today for me, has a sentimental feel to it and naturally I am looking back over the years, remembering each Valentine's Day I spent with my ex. I always received roses, candy and dinner and I realize that on all those Valentine's Days, I did not appreciate enough the gifts that he gave me and took it for granted. Alot of times, it meant nothing to me and for some reason, I thought he did it "out of obligation." I never thought that there would come a day when I would not have these Valentine Days gifts anymore - but yet, here it is.

Take nothing for granted! Any show of appreciation or love from someone you receive - cherish it tremendously, because there might come a day when all these shows of affection disappear, never to be experienced again. But do remember them and keep them close to your heart.

Valentine

UPDATE ON THE EX. . .

I have not heard from him in weeks. When I call, he does not answer the phone. I guess that he and the "baby momma" are working things out.

Don't know what to think?

Happy belated Valentine's Day to you too dear Valentine. I only wish that you could have spent yours this year much the same way you have in years past. But one never knows what Valentine's Days of the future will bring. It's never too early to start visualizing the reality you'd like to create for yourself and your love on 2/14/12. I do hope you hear from him soon. Please continue to keep us posted.

Well, at this point I am beginning to realize that the whole "getting back together" charade was a plan to get money out of me. The day after I wrote a $500 check to my ex for him to buy materials in order to do a job so that he could make some money was the last day that I heard anything from him.

I was looking at my bank statement when this occured to me. The day after he cashed the check was the day he quit speaking to me. I have been had!!

I never thought he would do this to ME of all people, but all things point to it.

WOW, how sorry is that? I have never seen someone borrow money from someone and then never speak to them again.

Dear Valentine,

I've been thinking of you a lot lately and wondering how things have been going for you these days. Please drop by and update. I hope things have gotten much better since your last post.

Hi Venus

I have moved on from the above-mentioned disaster and am into something else. How are you are predicting "Lottery Transits" or something similar?

On January 31 of this year, a "voice" came to me and urged me to start playing the lottery. I have NEVER played the lottery and knew nothing about it! Anyway, I heeded the voice and bought some lottery analyzing software and some books. Since that time, I have won like 50 free tickets $42.00. Nothing to brag about, but something is better than nothing at all. Last week, I told myself that I needed to forget about it and stop playing for awhile, but no matter what I do, I cannot stop thinking about the "numbers." Don't know why this urge will not seem to leave me.

Do you think it means something? I am definately not bored, I have plenty to do - but this "voice" keeps nagging me!?!?!

I am back To update, the ex paid me back and it took him a long time to come up with the money. He has had a hard time keeping work (construction). I went by myself to an old familiar place the other night and out of the blue he showed up! Haven't talked to him in months. I was dancing and having a blast! I think he got a little tipsy sitting at the bar, and introduced me to one of his friends as "my last ex." We were cutting jokes and laughing and he said, "do you know who I am?" I said "yes" laughing. He said, I am "***(his name) and you are *****" He used my married name, when I was married to him. Guess he is hinting again?

Both sound like good signs Valentine. I hope something positive comes out of it.

I just don't know anymore . . .I never know where he is coming from. I feel sometimes that he is scared of me, or scared of his feelings - he tries so hard not to show them, and then sometimes they come out anyway. I have a weird belief of my own that we will get together again because we were married under a Mercury retrograde. Don't know if this theory holds water, but there are so many loose ends in this relationship. Neither of us can ever get any "closure." One of us is always drawn back to the other at various times, and we can never tell each other "good bye" for good!?

I'm sure he still cares, but just has his guard up for fear of being hurt again. Are you single again? If so, maybe you could initiate something... ask him out for coffee or lunch (something light to begin with) and go from there. Beats spinning your wheels about it trying to figure him out.

I am "estranged" at the moment and waiting for the court date, so I am pretty much single
I have talked to my ex everyday this week. We have been out to lunch, out to dinner, shopping, and even had a night out at a nightclub. I never knew he could dance! He refused to dance when we were married, so that was a pleasant surprise! He is a Scorpio like myself, so he will NEVER come out and say anything that is on his mind - he expects me to figure it out, so I will have to observe carefully! LOL

Well... maybe he's waiting for you to be legally "free" before he makes his move. When I was separated from my 1st husband I came across a guy or 2 who wouldn't really consider a serious relationship until I was officially divorced. Just be patient with him and time will tell.

Hello Valentine,

It's so wonderful to see you've stopped in recently with an update. I'm so very glad that things are going well for you. Please do continue to keep us posted.

Ok, I have to tell you guys about this recent event, and it is NOT about my ex!

I had a dream about the days of my youth, in other words the "ball park" where everyone in those days hung out all summer long. I played softball for years, as well as, all my childhood girl friends and the boys played baseball because there was nothing else to do! Anyway, I haven't thought about the park for at least 30 years, and it was so strange that I dreamed about it. In my dream, I was reminded of a mutual crush that I and this boy had on each other, but it never amounted to anything. I was confused as to why my attention was being brought to this crush I had years ago. This boy and I had also attended high school together, and the relationship was the same - we kind of admired each other from a distance, but neither of us had the courage to make the first move. So, we graduated high school and never saw each other again.

A few weeks ago, I received an email from an old friend, wanting me to sign up for out "school page" because my 30 year re-union is coming up. I hesitated for awhile, and then I finally signed on to the page. Seconds after I signed on, I got a message. I opened the message, and was floored when I saw that it was from "THE BOY I HAD A CRUSH ON"!!!! (Twilight Zone music in the background) LOL!

I was immediately bombarded by questions from him asking if I was married, did I have kids, where did I live now, etc. He asked for number and since then he has emailed, texted, called several times. On Christmas Day, he sent me a message saying that he was going to his mom's house, which happened to be two blocks from my house, while I was on the way to my mom's house, and we passed each other on the street. We stopped and pulled over. We both jumped out of our cars and ran to each other and hugged for what seemed like hours! He stared at me and all of a sudden, I felt like a nervous kid again. I did not know what to say, and he didn't either - we just continued to stare at each other. We attempted a little small talk, and the pressure got to be so intense, that I told him that I was running late and had to go. He sadly said "ok" and then before I knew it, he leaned forward to hug me again and kissed me . . .and I mean a REAL kiss!

The talking, messaging since that day has become more intense, and we have not gone one day without talking to each other.

We were born 4 days apart, and I am wondering if the reason we are attracted to each other is because of the fact that we are so much alike?

I am submitting our birth info here so that you pros can work your magic on synastry again for me! LOL! Let me know what you guys think!

Me: 11/3/63, Sault Ste. Marie, Michigan at 7:55 p.m.
Him: 10/29/63, Birmingham, AL, at 12:08 p.m.

Wow Valentine! You always have the wildest psychic experiences. Must be all that Scorpio. And even wilder is the fact that the two of you have a lot of conjunctions in your charts, being only a few days apart. I am very curious to see how things progress between you. Please do keep us posted.

You're telling me! People think I am crazy, but this stuff really happens!! Do not know why.

Well, I went to lunch with him today and the attraction was so strong, it was hard to handle. I began to think "what's too good to be true is always just that - Too good to be true!" But I am not so sure anymore. We are finding it hard to separate and there is some talking, but now it is more we already know what the other is thinking. I am starting to feel that he is a lover/husband from a past life because I feel so close to him, and he told me today that Christmas Day was deja vu - he has seen that image in his mind before! Freaky!!!

Although, I found out today that we are not 4 days apart, he is a year older. So, if you get a chance to interpret the charts, make his for 1962 instead of 1963.

I feel like a teenager again!!!

Love Always,
Valentine

Hello Valentine,

To feel like you are back in the springtime days of your life once again is a beautiful blessing to enjoy and treasure.

Hey Venus!

Everything is still going strong In the past few days, I have had my car stolen, then found this morning, along with other weird and freaky things! Something is going on, there is a strange atmosphere around.

Last night, he drove me to see my son and we stepped outside on the front porch. It actually felt like we were teenagers again on a first date with my son "over-looking" and acting like a "father." Crazy!

We have something really special without the need of a chart for confirmation. I just hope it lasts for a while!

Hope everything is good with you

Hi there Valentine,

How have things been going with you and your old friend? Very well and good I hope. That is a bummer about your car being stolen. Thankfully it was found! Hopefully no other strange things have happened since your last post. I hope you'll drop in soon with an update. Until then, take good care.

Hi Venus
Thanks for dropping in and checking on me Everything is going TOO well! Which is a little scary for me, because I sometimes expect the worst or something to happen. You know the old saying "if it seems to good to be true, it is!" We were out with friends a few nights ago, and they were asking us how we ran into each other again. He immediately spoke up and told the whole story and also added, "that first day we saw each other again, it felt like deja vu, I knew that day that I was in love." I have never heard a man come right out and say anything like that before - especially in front of a bunch of people! I was flabbergasted!

I spoke with a psychic friend of mine a few days ago. Her reading was that he has secretly loved me for years and that this relationship would be the best one I ever had. She then gave several details about him that were absolutely accurate. I am still in the state of a "fog" not quite believing all of this. Only time will tell I guess, if it is truly meant to be. So far, however, I am enjoying EVERY minute of it!!!

Hope things are going well for you Have a GREAT week!

Hi Valentine,

I am so happy to hear that things are going very well between you and your old friend. You know that old saying that if you keep expecting the worst, that is exactly what you'll eventually get, so you'll want to keep those thoughts as positive as possible. Keep on enjoying this beautifully loving experience, however it may turn out, and just know that whatever does happen, it's all good and exactly as it's supposed to happen for both of your soul's growth. Please continue to check in and keep us posted.

Just wanted to pop in with an update. Hope every is doing well . Me and my "old school buddy" have spent a lot of time together and last night, he even asked if he could come over and go to Target with me to get dog food! LOL! This past weekend, however, he had made plans to play cards with some friends, so I made my own plans to go out dancing with my friends. Ran into another guy I went to school with at the place we went to dance and he sat down at our table. Someone took a picture of all of us and posted it to Facebook and within seconds, I received a text from my "squeeze" saying that he was on his way to where I was at! He actually showed up there and I was surprised because it was so late. He sat down for a little while, and we danced a few times. I had drank probably one too many and told him I was leaving and that he should go home because it was so late. He insisted on following me home to make sure I got there safe. I started to fight him on this and told him that I would be fine on my own. Regardless, he followed me home and came in. For some reason, I blurted out, "what is it exactly that you want from me??" (Too much alcohol) He raised his voice and said, "I want to spend the rest of my life with you. I would marry you tomorrow, if I knew that is what you wanted, but I don't think you do." (In the process of my third divorce!) I was utterly, completely shocked!!! We did not talk about this incident until a few days later. I told him that I knew he said that for the sole purpose of trying to get my attention, and to forget about it because he really could not have meant what he said. He told me that it might not be the best thing to do for either of us. Now he says that he is not going to say whether he would or would not marry me, but that "the opportunity is there."????????

Hi there Valentine,

I'm so glad you dropped in with an update. I had been wondering how you and your school buddy were doing. I had a feeling it was all going very well. By the looks of things, it sure does seem like he has developed some strong feelings for you. Are yours just as strong for him? Inquiring minds and hearts want to know! LOL Seriously though, I can see why you want to take things reeeaaaallly slooooww and do agree that you should go at whatever pace feels most comfortable and right for you. Besides, you know the saying about good things coming to those who wait. I continue to wish you and your school buddy all the best and I look forward to your next update. Until then, take good care.

Hi Venus!
Thanks for your ALWAYS encouraging words

I have had my issues with this "old and new" person in my life and it has been difficult at times to let this one "in." I do care for him A LOT, and yet I have found myself at times fighting my feelings for him and pretending that this is not really happening and not real. It has been an "up and down" emotional roller coaster for me, but he has not budged an inch! He continues to stand by what he says and feels for me and refuses to give up. This says to me that I at least have to give it a try because I am supposed to learn something here. I know him from another life, I feel this whenever I look him in the eyes and he says the same.

I do enjoy our time together and am very happy he is in my life, but I always worry and wonder what will come of it. He says that I am being "way too cautious" in our relationship, but that is to be expected of me at this early stage I think I am trying very hard to be as "open" as I can be!

Thanks for letting me share everything here. This is a very strange, yet delightful relationship

Hi Valentine,

How goes things with you and Mr. School Buddy? Very well and still going strong and happy, I hope. I understand why you are having difficulty letting him into your heart. You've been through quite a bit in the relationship department shown by your Saturn squaring your Neptune, not too far from your Sun/Mercury, and your Saturn squares his Moon so it makes sense that you are putting the brakes on the passionate expression of his feelings for you by trying to keep things on the friendship level as long as you can. And I suspect that with Saturn squaring his Sun and opposing his Mars, and with Neptune also squaring his Mars, he's had his share of heartbreak and disappointment in his life too and would do well to take things slow too.

There is a lot of great energy in your charts - the conjuncting Scorpio Suns, the conjuncting Venuses in Scorpio and the trining Marses in fire. You both have another valuable asset and that's Pluto sextiles your Suns (and your Mercury) so that which has not destroyed your spirits has made you stronger. When you feel ready, you'll be able to embrace all the deep love and sizzling passion your two charts promise is waiting for you. But in the meantime, please do go as slow as you feel you need to and most importantly, listen to your intuition along the way. With all that Scorpio in you (and him too) you'll never go wrong doing that.

Please do continue to pop in with an update and know that I am here routing for you.

Wow Venus <3
Thanks for your insight!!! Everything is still going good, and he is holding on tight and hasn't given up on me yet Says he never will! LOL! We are going to our 30 year high school reunion together in July, with some other old school mates that have popped up recently. I can't wait, I think it will be an absolute blast! We have rented a limo and an entire suite at a very nice hotel near the reunion. Glad I have time to hopefully tone up and get a tan by that time

My goal has always been to move back to the beach (Florida) some day, and I plan to do that once I get out of law school. I have shared this dream with him. He was talking to his youngest daughter the other day about college. He told her, "once you get in college, I am moving to Florida!!" I guess he plans on going with me I can see a lot of potential in this relationship even though I am still going slow at it. He is so concerned with every little detail of my life, and this is hard to get used to! He always opens the door for me, and today offered to cut my lawn!! *Awesome* He still has the old school charm and manners <3.

Thanks again for checking in and looking at our charts. I hope everything is going fantastic for you as well!!

Hello Valentine

You are most welcome for the astrological insights. I hope they resonated with you and were helpful. I am so happy to hear that everything is still going so good with you and your school buddy. He definitely sounds like a keeper. Please do continue to keep us posted. There's nothing my double Libran heart enjoys more than a great and beautiful love story like yours. Enjoy your thrilling and amazing journey on the exhilarating path of Love. Much Love & Blessings to you and school buddy.

Hi Venus

Thought I would check in Hope everything is well with you and the gang

Things are still looking good over here. School buddy and I are still going strong. Things are getting more serious as the days roll on. He has now met my family and is going on the "family beach trip" this year! Amazing that my entire family approves (never happened before!) A few weeks after that is the high school reunion.

I was wondering if you could do me a favor . . . does my chart show money problems right now? If so, when will it end??

Luv u <3

Hello Valentine

It's so wonderful to see you here. I am so, so happy to hear that things are still going strong with you and your school buddy. You have quite the amazing summer ahead.

Your chart doesn't show any serious money problems right now that I can see. Maybe just some slight, temporary turbulence for the next month or 2, but you should start to see things smooth out soon after that. In September lucky Jupiter conjuncts the ruler of your 2nd house and kicks off a lovely 7 month long trend of positive financial opportunities for you, so it seems you have much to look forward to.

You're going to be just fine Valentine. You take good care and keep on enjoying life. And please do stop in often and let us know how things are going. All my best to you & school buddy.