Hi Kell dear,

here is Mars in Libra and Venus in Leo, for you,

The Perfect Lover on Display

You are but a player and romance is your stage. You delight, amaze, shock and befuddel as your partner watches with rapt attention. Basically you can play any role he may require of you. The only catch is that you have to control the performances. You say when they start and when they end. No one, not even the person you love the most, is allowed to peek behind the curtain. Not only would that compromise your control, it would also spoil the illusion.
Even though you are one of the warmest and most charming of all Mars in Libra lovers, you can also be one of the most illusive. You don't want your partner to get too close or know you too well. For this reason you tend to be a little shy about sex although, if you are guaranteed complete control, you can even play the role of a sex machine with gusto. The only part of the play that's apt to give you trouble is intimacy. Unfortunately, until you learn this role, the grateful applause you earn elsewhere will be of no consequence.


I can imagine Kell that sex was not one of the problems with your ex!!

Hi Rainbow,
My b/f 's Sun is in Scorpio, plus three other planets, and that's something I admire in him, he's capacity to feel, either good or bad, sometimes I feel like I have lukewarm blood on my veins and I really dislike that.

Let's see Divinia,

Mars in Cappie, Venus in Virgo

The Analytic Slave of love,

You are a lover so concerned with managing sex that you often appear shy and inhibited when, in fact, you are just examining all the options. Your physical drives are very strong, but you are too much of a pragmatist to let them run free. You cultivate your sexuality and avoid emotional entanglement. In the process, you become very knowledgeable in the ways of love.
Unfortunately, your caution and resorcefulness can't save you from the Mars in Capricorn penchant for misery. You will always be drawn to relationships that demand self-sacrifice. Even when you are too practical to answer that allure, it will never release its hold on your heart. You are a very sensible and level headed Lover who secretly longs to be foolish for the sake of love.

It does ring some bells!!!!+

Mars in Aries, Venus in Cancer,

(don't worry Sky, I only type with four fingers, so my hand is not too tired)

The Emotional Extremist

You demand more sex than most Mars in Aries Lovers. You need edgy excitement and far-reaching challenges, but you also need emotional comfort and security. This adds an intense, visceral need to your sexuality that is scary at times, people are drawn to you because of your loyalty and outstanding courage, but they may be put off by your tendency to confuse extreme experiences with extreme love.
Because you take such a radical, all-or-nothing approach to sex and love, the whole operation often becomes terribly inconvenient for all parties concerned. Because of this, you are often happiest when your love is constrained, by circumstances beyond your control. You are better able to mantain the security you need when there is a social or intellectual buffer between you and the free exercise of your incredible passions. Such constraints also allow you to hide your emotional vulnerability.

You're welcome Rena and Kitty,

hi tish,

would you share what your book says for mars in aries and venus in pisces?

thank you

amy

Tish, the is frighteningly accurate! ahhh! (see the line about hiding emotional vulnerability)

Guess that's why I date guys who are either emotionally unavailable or who move out of state....

Mars in Leo, Venus in Virgo for Carrie,

The Mundane Maestro of love

There are no humble Mars in Leo Lovers, but there is a quiet self-effacing charm about your sexual nature that comes pretty close to humility. You have a way of winning the seual ame without trying, of being devastatinly sexy while holding yourself aloof from the heat of the moment. It's not that you can't be passionate. It's just that you prefer to express your affection discreetly and practically inmundane acts of service and real physical intimacy.
Your sex life tends to be divided between "little sex" and "big sex". "little sex" is sex that is easily availabe and purely physical. It's fun but you can't be very proud of it. "Big sex" is sex that is larger than life, in which yoiu can fully express your pride and your idealism. Of course "big sex" doesn't come around very often and when it does it requires a lot of effort, both emotionally and spiritually. That's why, wheter you like it or not, you are constantly drawn back to "little sex". It fills the gaps between your grand passions.

Hi Amykins,

Here is Mars in Aries, Venus in Pisces for you,

The Delicate Extremist

You may be the most idealistic, volatile, and alluring of all the Mars in Aries Lovers. You combine enormous erotic vitality with real emotional need for human contact. Unfortunately, this emotional opennes also makes you one of the most vulnerable lovers. The reckless abandon that characterizes Mars in Aries approach to sex invariably brings you pain and sorrow. It would all be so much easier if you could exercise a little caution in your love life. But what would be the fun in that?
Your attitude toward sex and love changes a great deal as you age. Your sexual energy in youth is so irresistible and your optimism so strong that you rush into relationships. After you've been bumped and bruised a few times, you become more aware of your psychic scars and painful memories than of a sweetheart's potential to make you happy. It is only natural that you will be wary and maybe even a little vindictive. You must be mindful not to make the people who love you in the present suffer for the mistakes of those whpo failed you in the past.



Hi SkyD, yes, it is scary how accurate... my jaw dropped when I read my B/F description...

Heehee Tish... no that wasn't a problem as we had Venus sextile Mars both ways. The only thing is that when you have two of the same, it depends on both of you being in the right mood at the same time.

What hit me about my description was the fact that the level of intimacy has been a problem... one that I'm working on though. It dosen't help that my Moon is in an air sign, thank goodness it's in the 12th house though (to give it more depth).

Thank you very much Dear.

Hi Kel,

You're lucky your Moon is in 12th House. I don't know which makes me more dettached, my Moon or my Rising.

Do you want me to write Troy's description?

Tish

P.S, I can hardly contain to write JC's description, but I was waiting for Lis to appear.

Thanks Tish

Your Moon's in a water house to Tish (if I remember correctly)... 4th house. ...but I hear ya on the detachment placements with my Gem Moon and Asc.

Sure, I'd like to hear what it has to say about Troy... he'll be the first double sign we're doing here. Both Leo! Boy... I must have something for strongly influenced Leo men.

While your at it please do post JC's... I'd like to hear it.

Hi Tish. Can you also do Mars in Taurus, Venus in Sag? Thanks.

Hi Tish

Please will you do me???

Mars Virgo Scorp Venus

Hugs

L

Hey, Divinia, your placements are the exact opposite of mine Mine is a Cappy Venus and Virgo Mars. *yawn* Tish, will you please type that out too?

Add me to the waiting list. Mine are the opposite of Amykins' ...

Mars in Pisces, Venus in Aries

also please

Mars and Venus both in Sagittarius

...for you-know-who.

Maria

hehe maria! i certainly hope yours is much better than mine b/c the description says i am MUSH

thank you very much tish

Wow Kell!!! I didn't know Troy was a doble Leo, sometimes Signs do tend to appear often in the people we relate to, for me is Pisces and Scorpio.

Leo Mars, Leo Venus

The Divine Maestro of Love,

You are the divinely anoited autocrat of sex. No one tells you what to do and nothing can limit the expression of your sexuality. You break rules, not because you are rebellious, but because your sexual needs supercede all man - made laws (and even some natural ones). Of course, you'll probably deny that you're ever had notions like this and chuckle over the implications. That's okay. The deivinely anointed autocrat of sex shouldn't be forced to admit to anything.
The one skill missing from your erotic arsenal is compromise. It's not that you'll ever have problems with getting people to do what you want. If your effervescent charm doesn't get them then your commanding self-confidence surely will. But life is seldom as cooperative as your partners are prepared to be. If you can't learn how to fit your exorbitant demands into the content of reality, then you'll never be happy, no matter how many hearts you manage to conquer.



And here is JC's description and Lis too,

Mars in Virgo Venus in Scorpio

The basically Scandalous Lover

You are the sexiest Mars in Virgo Lover, one who knows that proper lovemaking is much more than just technique. Your sensuality runs deep; it touches the psychological roots of pleasure as well as the nerve endings. You are always alert to your partner's feelings and moods. You have a capacity for slow seduction that is rare in this type; however, it is not how good you are that makes you such a desirable partner, it's how bad you can be.
Sex is never quite as simple for you as it is for most Mars in Virgo Lovers because when you break down sex to its most elemental parts what you find is power. You don't have to have power over your partner in order to enjoy sex, but, with your irresistible sexual allure and cool headed approach to passion, it's almost too easy for you to get that kind of physical power and emotional control. The only thing that is open to question is: how are you going to use it??

Hi Sky,

Mars in Taurus Venus in Sag

The Reluctant Sensualist

You are a very sensitive, skittish Lover and you often feel at odds with the raw, unmitigated sensuality of your own sexual feelings. You expect sex to be more than just flesh-on-flesh. You expect it to be an inspiration of the spirits as well as the body. Therefore, you are often dissapointed, or simply overwhelmed, by sexual experiences you have. You may try and escape the limitations of physical sex and seek out relationships that are based more on intellectual and spiritual affinity. No matter how much you try to develop the idealistic side of your sexual nature, deep down you will always remain a sensualist.
Even though you are a nervous, ocasionally confused Lover who may require some special handling, the impulsive energy of your lovemaking can make you a very desirable partner. You are one of the least conservative Mars in taurus Lovers, when the mood is right, you can dazzle your partner with your daring and unpredictability. In your best moements you have the capacity to blend raw sexual energy with childlike innocence and, when this happens, it is worth a little confunsion.

Ok, now for Suchi, as Lis' was already typed above.

Mars in Virgo Venus in Cappie,

The basically Prudent Lover

You like to serve a purpose, It's not that you can't appreciate physical pleasure for its own sake. The fact is that you are a very sensual Lover. You are not likely to resist anything that makes your body feel better, but your level of excitement always goes up a notch when your sex play fits into a larger nonsexual context. You want something out of sex you can use, sometimes to make that expediture of energy worthwhile.
At times, your search for sex with a payoff makes you seem hard and self-serving. Your judgement can be harsh of people and relationships that are not useful to you. But once you find a relationship that serves your overall needs, you are willing to labor long and hard to mantain it. Your approach to sex may lack much in termes of romance, but you can more than make up the difference with your impressive work ethic.

Hi Maria, here is yours and You Know Who's

Mars in Pisces, Venus in Aries

The Emphatic Love Addict

You are a pushy Mars in Pisces Lover who believes that the best emotional defense is to be always on the offense. You hide your vulnerability behind a facade of daring and sexual bluster. You compensate for your own tendency to fall in love too quickly and too often by making everyone fall in love with you first. This agressive stance makes you one of the most visible and dynamic Lovers of this type, but it also leaves you open to emotional injury. Since it is you who takes the initiative in relationships, it is very likely that you will find the warmth and emotional support you so desperately need. It's making it last, that is the problem. What you lack is patience. When hard times hit a relationship, or you feel less that totally adored, you inmediatly begin looking for an exit. It always seems easier to make a new start than to ride out an emotional storm. Until you learn to deal with this restlesness (some might call it cowardice), you will never find the secure bond you desire.

Mars and Venus in Sag,

The Natural Love Child

You are the most innocent of all the Mars in Sag Lovers, and are often the most unrealistic. Sex has to be a seamless extension of your own joyous life force or it just can't work for you. It has to be something you don't think about, something that just happens. At times you can be so protective of this erotic purity that you seem shy and standoffish. Even under the best of conditions this search for sex as simple, animal energy, will always make you a very difficult Lover to please.
So, what's your best-case scennario? Well, to keep on looking, of course. Your frustrated search for innocence may often leave you incomplete, but it will also make you an inspired, hopeful and humane Lover who is full of playful energy and warm affection. If you give up on this search for purity in an impure world, you stop being a Lover of any sort. You become just another cynical observer.

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Your approach to sex may lack much in termes of romance, but you can more than make up the difference with your impressive work ethic.

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rofl. What does sex have to do with work ethic? Unless you're trying to seduce your boss "I can't give you tender kisses, but I'll sort out all your files in a jiffy.":D

It is true though that I might not enjoy sex for the sake of having sex. There has to be something more than just the physical. But, that could be my Scorpio as well.

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At times, your search for sex with a payoff makes you seem hard and self-serving.

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Not speaking in a sexual context here, but that is not really my basic nature. I'm too Neptunian to be the exact opposite of a door-mat. But, experience has taught me to think of what I'm getting out of a relationship as well. As in mental and emotional growth and hopefully, spiritual growth as well. That's one of the items on my ever-changing To-do list.

Hi Eagle,

I was thinking also about what it meant "work ethic", and my thought was maybe of working toward that area very ethically, which is a good thing.

I would also think that the pay off can be depending of the person, less spiritually oriented people would search for a more materilistic pay of while another could search for a more rewarding one, like love?

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Unfortunately, your caution and resorcefulness can't save you from the Mars in Capricorn penchant for misery. You will always be drawn to relationships that demand self-sacrifice. Even when you are too practical to answer that allure, it will never release its hold on your heart.

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This part of it hit me like a ton of bricks. I do think that this is probably true for me. I always think to myself that if anything were to happen and I would not have my husband (God forbid) that I would not wish to be with another. And I'm a Libra.....

Thank you very much for typing this up for me. You are a gem, Tish!

Might as well face it, I'm addicted to love... And you-know-who, the shy and standoffish husband full of innocent animal energy, truly is the natural love child. Actually, those interpretations pegged us pretty close in the love and sex department ... although my stick-with-it and make-it-work Capricorn Moon doesn't let me run away from important commitments too easily, at least not these days. And he's got the Scorpio loyalty counteracting that "urge for going" that natural love child Joni Mitchell sang about in the old days.

We're a funny pair and we've been having our strains here in this Saturn-seventh year of being close, but we're both working on it and at it ...

so, Suchi? That's where the work ethic comes in. You know right before that line mentioning work ethic in your interpretation it said: "But once you find a relationship that serves your overall needs, you are willing to labor long and hard to maintain it." Doesn't sound like a lot of fun, but it can be a good capacity to have available, as any long-married couple is sure to tell you.

Hey, amykins, it said you're mushy and I'm pushy! How dare they!

Tish, thanks much for another of your cool threads.

Love,
Maria