Me (female): 11/3/63, Sault Ste. Marie, Michigan at 8:00 p.m.
The other person (male): 3/12/59, Muncie, Indiana at 1:00 p.m.

THANKS!

Hi Velentine,

Well right off the bat his Sun squares your moon, which is a strong connectrion if not the easiest. You're both water signs, so it's easy for you to relate emotionally, but your airy Gemini Moon can inject some emotional distance to his Piscean Sun, so the connection could blow hot and cold. Venus and Mars are nicely connected, with his Jupiter conjunct both of these planets in your chart, while your Jupiter widely conjuncts his Venus and sextiles his Mars. Your Venus also trines his ascendant - a "karmic" connection - while your Mars trines his midheaven and Jupiter conjuncts it. At first blush I'd say that you are likely to be the dominant one in the partnership, and that's perfectly alright as long as dominant isn't dominating. You have both harmonious and harsh mutual aspects between your charts, but it looks like there are more strong positive bonds than difficult ones overall.

Sorry I don't have time to do a real analysis right now (although some others here may turn their eyes to it ), but in the meantime here is a computerized report that will give you some insight into some of the more important factors. (The interpretations for this report were done by astrologer Gina Ronco for Kepler software, and are pretty good.) I've attached it to this post, so you can read it by clicking the Attachment link.

Enjoy!

Love,
Greg

Gee thanks, Greg
However, I did not see the link you mentioned. I was curious about a certain clairvoyance I get with this person . . .I can hear his thoughts and can literally see him going about on his everyday chores and such. What astrological significance is there in the synastry? Or do I just have "it" naturally? I've never been able to do this with anyone but him?

Thanks;)

Valentine just above my last post (right after the date) you will see the word "Attachment." If you click on that, it will open up the attached report.

Your Sun and Mercury both conjuncting his Neptune would be one indicator of a psychic connection between you.

Love,
Greg

Valentine, Greg is exactly right about those particular connections! Ide like to take a look later tonight but I need to know if those birth times are only guesstimates or exact?
Thanks,

WoW Just read the link . . . ALOT like us!

Aries: My time is exact. I know that he has a Cancer ascendant. He gave the time, so I assume it is correct.

This relationship is really weird . . .we will go for periods of time without seeing each other, and then out of the blue, I will hear his voice saying where he is and to come there, and sure enough he is there! He says I "haunt" him and that he thinks of me every minute of every day, he has even asked me if I practice voodoo! He speaks ALOT about marrying me to me and our freinds, but I am not so sure if he is serious about going through with it! But the weirdest thing about the relationship is the fact that I can hear and see him without ever being around him!

Hi Valentine, sorry for the long delay!
As Greg mentioned, that merc(and sun) conjunction of yours to his neptune is key to what you describe, especially when its in his 4th house.
Another key aspect between you is his progressed venus/natal mars conjunction on your natal moon in Gemini.

Great for communication in this earth realm or the other realm. Also his merc trined your mars.
Looks like lots to talk about!

ide like to have gone into this better, but time is short. It looks like you may have some changes in the work/career area coming up, if not already.
I had thought maybe you both work together, but in rereading your post, it doesnt sound like it.

Not too sure if you'll marry him, there could be a bit of a stress on the relationship coming up. I dont think its overly serious.
Note I said could be. Whats showing could also be financial restrictions. I would almost guess its something with work in both cases.
I'll be back within a couple of weeks if you need anything more in regards to this.

Thanks Aries!
No problem on the delay . . we are ALL busy;) I am sort of getting used to the clairvoyance part in this relationship, it is becoming an everyday thing! Yes, we are both in financial straights right now. As a matter of fact, he mentioned a week or two ago, out of the blue, that he had nothing to offer me regarding money . . I never asked him or insinuated such!! Don't know why he said that? I am going back to school, and plan to open a salon when I get out, he has not returned to work due to an accident at work - he is on workers comp right now.

It's funny that you mentioned marriage. This guy seems obsessed with marriage, he is always talking about it to me and his freinds . . this is something he wants . . .It is not on my mind right now, however, but he has always told our freinds that he WILL marry me!??

Thanks for your insight on this. This is a very intense relationship and sometimes it is difficult to know what "plane" we are on.

Valentine

thanks for the clarification Val! A chart is truly a reflection of whats going on while on this earth, and I find the progressions are more to do with soul choices!
With his venus progressing to his mars and about to hit on your moon, I wouldnt at all be surprised by a proposal! Thats a key point to watch, and any future lunations or hits by transits may trigger something even deeper. T. neptune is getting close to trining that spot...so a double dose of it to ya!

I understand the strength of the hit on someones neptune in the 4th...thats a very spiritual connection...a real been-there-beforish type of feeling.
I never like to prewarn about the finances, and always hope its something the person is already experiencing so Im not the bearer of 'bad news'.
Thanks again.

Happy dreams and connections and non-verbal communications!

WOW Aries, that's deep!
Can you give me some kind of warning timeline estimate? Like when will his Venus hit Mars/Moon . . . .and the Neptune trine, when will that occur?

Hey Aries and Greg;)

Just wanted to check in with you guys and am still wondering when this progression "hit" will occur. He starts back to work August 1st, thank goodness! I am in school, but of course you don't get paid to go to school! Oh well, maybe a night job will pop up for me soon!

Anyways, hope you guys are doing well:D

Valentine

Wow! This was a post of mine from long ago . . .since that time, he did propose and we married in Las Vegas in 2006. However, financially we have not progressed and certain "negative traits" of his that I was not aware of in the beginning, have surfaced. We have been "spinning our wheels" for a long time and never seem to get anywhere. There is absolutely no iniative coming from his end.

Personally, however, I have been through several years of college and about to proceed to law school this year and I have accomplished many things in my own personal life.

Regretfully, over the past three years, I have found myself realizing that this marriage was a mistake and have been longing for the one that I was married to previously for 13 years.

If someone to care to do a chart for me to look for any forthcoming reconciliation with my ex, I would appreciate it!

Me: 11/3/63, Sault Ste. Marie, Michigan @ 8:00 pm
Ex: 11/14/59, Birmingham, AL @ 1:00 pm

Mourning the past . . .
Valentine

Hey Valentine
I am sorry to hear you are at a Cross Roads of this sort.
There is no pain like Heart ache.
No better teacher either.

However! You are Alive! and Aware! of your Self!
That is the good news.
Even if is is trying or pain full right now.
Your light shines through...
even in your few Words.

I will check into what I now on the subject here...
although I find the Human Heart
quite the enigma when it comes to charts and grids.
Only YOU know what YOU want, so to speak
but as Linda has said, the Stars compel....

Pulling out some books and will try to get back ASAP.


Hold on tight to Your Dream.


Chahles

"When the student is ready, the teacher will come . . ."

Thanks for my forthcoming anticipated advice

I didn`t realize you were a fellow Michigander!

Only lived there for the 1st year of my life and then we moved, never to return

Hi Valentine,

I am so sorry to hear about your relationship woes. Are you still married to your second husband? When I saw that you and your first husband are both Scorpios I was shocked that the two of you got divorced, especially with him also having a Taurus Moon. I bet he had a hard time letting you go.

Have you talked to your first husband at all and told him how you feel about him? Do you know how he feels about you? Without knowing any of the details of what transpired between you it would be hard to say if a reconciliation between you would be possible. As Chahles said, only your two hearts will know the answer to that question.

But peeking at his chart, I do see a lovely Mercury/Jupiter conjunction in Jupiter's sign of Sagittarius which gives him a lot of potential to have a forgiving mind. And where both sextile Venus in Libra, the sign of marriage, perhaps that could extend over to a forgiving heart as well. And your Sagittarius Mars links into all that - so I do believe there is great hope for a second chance between you.

I wish you all the best Valentine and please do keep us updated on how things work out between you.

Something told me to sign on because I had a response . . .thanks Venus! I would love to tell you the whole story. I will not be able to post it right now, but look for a post from me Monday - I will spell it all out.

Also, I will be starting law school this year. I am also wondering if this is what I should do considering my age. Everyone I have talked to says, "go for it!" But what do the stars have to say? Let me know what you see. See ya Monday

Well, amazingly it looks like I have a few minutes, so I will get started. . .

My ex and I owned 10 acres, two houses, we had nice autos and plenty of money. He owned his own contruction company and was doing well. I worked as a paralegal and also made good money. I had a son from my first marriage and my ex also had full custody of his son from his first marriage. We had "blended" the kids into a tight family and the boys considered us mom and dad. My ex spent almost all of his spare time with the boys, hunting, fishing, four-wheeling, etc. We worked all the time and never went on a real family vacation - it was always my ex and the boys that went on trips - never me. I was left to myself most of the time, which I didn't mind too much, so I thought. I pretty much did what I wanted to do.

In 2002,both boys had graduated high school. Out of the blue, my law firm disintegrated and was no more, I lost the job I had worked for the past 7 years. My ex was furious besides the fact that I was crushed and totally lost! I became confused, scared to go back into the legal field and stupidly decided to go to barber school and get my license. I also got a part time job bartending on the weekends and began staying out late because of the hours. The owner of the bar came up with this off the wall rule and barred all the husbands and boyfriends from coming in the bar during our shifts. At this point, I felt like I had no family anymore and lived pretty much on my own. I met the guy that I am married to now working at that bar. He gave me the attention that I craved, so I thought that this was the guy I was supposed to be with. I began drawing up divorce papers.

You are right when you said my ex had a hard time letting go. It was a battle. I took one house, put it up for sale and gave him the other, newer house, but he insisted on living in mine after I had packed my bags and left. I had him evicted three times and could not understand why he would not live in the other house. It took my three years to sell my house because he refused to get out of it.

He called me everyday for three years, send me flowers, birthday cards, etc. I avoided him like the plague. Meanwhile, I took off to Vegas and married the guy I am with now, on a whim. I soon found out that my present husband did not like to work and had a serious drug problem which he hid from me in the beginning. I realized I had left my family for a piece of !@#$. I was in a worse position than before.

I gritted my teeth and succumbed to the new disaster that I put myself in and told myself that I deserved it. I had ripped everyone's world apart when I left my ex.

Will send PART II later . . .

Hi Valentine,

You are very welcome for the response. With all that Scorpio in your chart, it doesn't surprise me that you knew someone had replied.

You've shared quite the story so far and I'm looking forward to part II. From what you've said so far, it looks real promising that your ex would take you back if he knew you wanted him. Hopefully he hasn't since moved on to another relationship and is still free to be with you. Of course there's still the matter of getting yourself free from your current partner if you two have reached the end of your road together. Matters of the heart surely are never easy and I wish you all the best.

I will look at your chart later tonight and check out the law school angle. Though I would venture to say that if you enjoyed your work as a paralegal for the 7 years you were doing that, then going on to law school would most likely be right up your alley. But I'll let you know what jumps out when I have a peek. Have a wonderful day.

Oops! I forgot about this . . .part II. Had a busy day today, anyway, here goes . . .

When I finally found a buyer for the house, my ex ran them off several times and then became really unbearable! He began calling me an threatening me to the point where I filed suit for phone harassment. I was shocked that he showed up for court to take his punishment, but he did! Even in court that day, he insisted that I "sit next to him" and complimented every piece of clothing and jewelry I was wearing. The judge reprimanded him and we left. He kept trying to talk to me until he saw my wedding ring . . .I thought he was going into shock. All he kept saying was, "I can't believe it, no, no, no." He quit calling and I didn't hear from him for awhile.

Fast forward to last March (2010). A mutual freind of ours called me and told me that my ex's mother had passed away. I knew that he would be crushed because she was the only parent he had - his father died when he was six years old. I decided to go to the funeral because this woman had done alot for me and I got along very well with her. I saw him as soon as I walked in the funeral home, but he did not see me. I had to walk up to him and tap him on the shoulder. He was very surprised. He asked me if I would go with him to view the body, since he could not bring himself to do so. We held hands and bid his mother farewell. They should pictures of our family on a large projector - his brothers, me, my ex and the boys. It was heartbreaking. He walked me to my car, still holding my hand and told me he missed me and I said the same.

He invited me over to his younger brother's house that afternoon and I was on my way to go over there when I got a phone call from another one of our freinds that was at the funeral. They told me that my ex had a very young girl living with him and that she was pregnant!!! He never mentioned this to me at all! I turned around and went back home, not beleiving what I just heard.

He later explained that the baby was due in May. The pregnancy was a "mistake" and he did not love the girl (!?) but now there was a baby on the way and he was determined to do the right thing and take care of it.

We have met each other at restaurants and other places on numerous occasions. He says that when the baby becomes a year old, he is making a move because the girl is a drug addict and does not take care of the baby. He is not doing well right now financially. I have bought the baby clothes and things she needs here and there because I want them to be alright and do not want to see them suffer.

After all this, he says he still loves me, never got over me and would love ot get back together but doesn't want the baby to be a burden on me.

Meanwhile, back at the ranch . . .

Like I metioned earlier, my current husband, has severe addiction issues that I am learning all too well - he has kicked cocaine so far, but seems to always replace it with something else. First, it was gambling. I cannot tell you how many weekly paychecks of $700 that he has completely thrown away at the casino. He gets very mad if I don't go with him on these trips. For the past two years, I have stayed home and told him to go, whether he gets mad or not! When something comes up, like for instance, he gets sick, he whines because he has no money - he had plenty before he went to the casino.

Recently, he has started frequenting this bar after work with his co-workers. That's ok, but he goes there EVERY DAY. I have begun to get used to this, and relish the time to myself.

Now, this morning I opened the cable bill and obviously he rented a movie - porn - which has added an additional $20 to the bill in which I have to pay! DAMN!

He gets furious when I am on the computer (I take most of my college classes online), does not like me visiting freinds or family - says that "I am abandoning him" when I do.

I sat down one day with him and tried to get him to see that this is not working - he threatened divorce, so I said no more and drew up the papers. When laid out for him to sign, he got mad, punched a hole in the wall, spit his food in the floor and on the wall and took off for the casino.

Looks like I will just have to pack up one day and dissapear because I do not look forward to another confrontation with him!

I am sorry to air my dirty laundry here in front of everyone, but had to get this off my chest to people that I trust, which is this website. I have always been able to come here and get feedback and advice. Thanks everyone!! I am a very private person and this is the only place where I "expose myself."

It is embarassing that I am in this shape at my age. I had to move back in the house that I grew up in and am still here, because of this "rut" that he drags me into. I have got to get rid of him somehow.

Wow Valentine! I am totally floored by all you shared. I would love to see you have a happily ever after ending to your tragic thus far story and live the rest of your life with the one you truly love. The part about you and your ex holding hands at his mother's funeral had me in tears. From what you've shared I can see that he loves you a great deal and all the Venus in me (half of my planets plus my Ascendant are ruled by her and she's in my 1st house) is routing for the two of you.

It sounds like he's in a similar boat as you with his being involved with someone who has an addiction to drugs. Is he still planning on splitting with her this coming May? I imagine there will be quite the rocky road ahead when he goes to file for sole custody of the baby. Have you decided if you are going to get back together with him and be a mother figure to his child? Transiting Saturn is in your 5th house of children right now, so I imagine it's something you are giving a lot of heavy consideration to.

I wish you all the best with getting the divorce you seek from your current husband. Even if you did 'make a mistake' when you married him, you shouldn't have to pay for it for the rest of your life. Whatever your karmic debt may be with each other, you are free to move on once you've honored your soul contract. Transiting Pluto is currently in your 7th house so I do believe there will be an ending to your current marriage at some point during this very legnthy transit.

As far as going to law school, I say 'go for it' too. Your progressed Sun will be in Sagittarius (the natural ruler of the 9th house which is the jurisdiction of law and higher education) for another year or so and you have the Progressed Moon in the 9th house for a few more months yet. Also, your Progressed Jupiter (ruler of Sagittarius) is in your Progressed 9th house for a good long while so you have plenty of time to indulge in your legal studies. With the sign of Sagittarius intercepted in your natal 6th house, I do believe that you are well suited for work in the legal field.

All the very best to you Valentine and please do keep us posted on how you make out with everything.

Venus!
This is GREAT news. *Whew* that was alot of hard work on your part, and you don't know how much I appreciate you looking into this. When you do it yourself, you are somewhat biased as to the over all picture, so I could not do this myself THANK YOU, THANK YOU!!!

Also, my ex and I got married during a Mercury retrograde, so I knew that something about our relationship would have to be "re-done."

As for the baby, a year after the ex and I were married, we took custody of my ex's son, as well as two other boys from his ex-wife's first marriage. She was neglecting all of them and we could not stand to see them treated this way. They lived with us for two years until the grandmother came and got them. Children are special and are our future. We will only get out of them what we "put into them." Once people understand this, it might be the end to teen violence, drugs, etc. You have to invest in your future!! I would have no problem with the baby - besides, it is a girl, something I have not had yet!

Battle or not, he will get that child from the baby mama addict. I have plenty of experience in that legal aspect
I am behind him all the way!

As for my current . . .his health has taken a dive. He is on blood pressure medicine, thyroid medicine (his thyroid has completely shut down) and yet he continues to drink heavily and does not take care of himself. I feel that someone who does not appreciate the life that they have been given, should not be here - it is just a waste. I think he will eventually do himself in.