Halo Dear Valentine

I have not forgotten YOU! I apologize for the delay on my end...
as I see now you are Truly in Dire Straits here and I am sorry for that.
Although I know you are very resilient in your Path,
never to have known a Scorpion who isn't.

Never have I known a Scorpion NOT tormented by Love
in one sense or the other either....it is their nature and attribute.
Both a blessing and a curse
added to the already bleeding heart dilemma
of Being Human.

I will have some time these next few daze
to read your full story and bring my perspective to it
using Linda's knowledge
and my twisted Aquarian take on things as well.
We are all in some quagmire of some sort
and often we cannot see the forest through the trees alone.
That is why those who are hear
come here.

AS the Knowflakes who respond have told you
and you know quite well....
There is a great Force in Numbers
and the Humans hear
care a great deal about the Heart.

Especially one a concerned and loving as yours.

Follow IT and Know you know
what is right.
Words and charts can only offer solutions and remedies.

Considering this is my favorite day of the year, I would like to wish everyone here HAPPY VALENTINE's DAY!!! I truly hope that everyone is with their nearest and dearest.

Of course today for me, has a sentimental feel to it and naturally I am looking back over the years, remembering each Valentine's Day I spent with my ex. I always received roses, candy and dinner and I realize that on all those Valentine's Days, I did not appreciate enough the gifts that he gave me and took it for granted. Alot of times, it meant nothing to me and for some reason, I thought he did it "out of obligation." I never thought that there would come a day when I would not have these Valentine Days gifts anymore - but yet, here it is.

Take nothing for granted! Any show of appreciation or love from someone you receive - cherish it tremendously, because there might come a day when all these shows of affection disappear, never to be experienced again. But do remember them and keep them close to your heart.

Valentine

UPDATE ON THE EX. . .

I have not heard from him in weeks. When I call, he does not answer the phone. I guess that he and the "baby momma" are working things out.

Don't know what to think?

Happy belated Valentine's Day to you too dear Valentine. I only wish that you could have spent yours this year much the same way you have in years past. But one never knows what Valentine's Days of the future will bring. It's never too early to start visualizing the reality you'd like to create for yourself and your love on 2/14/12. I do hope you hear from him soon. Please continue to keep us posted.

Well, at this point I am beginning to realize that the whole "getting back together" charade was a plan to get money out of me. The day after I wrote a $500 check to my ex for him to buy materials in order to do a job so that he could make some money was the last day that I heard anything from him.

I was looking at my bank statement when this occured to me. The day after he cashed the check was the day he quit speaking to me. I have been had!!

I never thought he would do this to ME of all people, but all things point to it.

WOW, how sorry is that? I have never seen someone borrow money from someone and then never speak to them again.

Dear Valentine,

I've been thinking of you a lot lately and wondering how things have been going for you these days. Please drop by and update. I hope things have gotten much better since your last post.

Hi Venus

I have moved on from the above-mentioned disaster and am into something else. How are you are predicting "Lottery Transits" or something similar?

On January 31 of this year, a "voice" came to me and urged me to start playing the lottery. I have NEVER played the lottery and knew nothing about it! Anyway, I heeded the voice and bought some lottery analyzing software and some books. Since that time, I have won like 50 free tickets $42.00. Nothing to brag about, but something is better than nothing at all. Last week, I told myself that I needed to forget about it and stop playing for awhile, but no matter what I do, I cannot stop thinking about the "numbers." Don't know why this urge will not seem to leave me.

Do you think it means something? I am definately not bored, I have plenty to do - but this "voice" keeps nagging me!?!?!

I am back To update, the ex paid me back and it took him a long time to come up with the money. He has had a hard time keeping work (construction). I went by myself to an old familiar place the other night and out of the blue he showed up! Haven't talked to him in months. I was dancing and having a blast! I think he got a little tipsy sitting at the bar, and introduced me to one of his friends as "my last ex." We were cutting jokes and laughing and he said, "do you know who I am?" I said "yes" laughing. He said, I am "***(his name) and you are *****" He used my married name, when I was married to him. Guess he is hinting again?

Both sound like good signs Valentine. I hope something positive comes out of it.

I just don't know anymore . . .I never know where he is coming from. I feel sometimes that he is scared of me, or scared of his feelings - he tries so hard not to show them, and then sometimes they come out anyway. I have a weird belief of my own that we will get together again because we were married under a Mercury retrograde. Don't know if this theory holds water, but there are so many loose ends in this relationship. Neither of us can ever get any "closure." One of us is always drawn back to the other at various times, and we can never tell each other "good bye" for good!?

I'm sure he still cares, but just has his guard up for fear of being hurt again. Are you single again? If so, maybe you could initiate something... ask him out for coffee or lunch (something light to begin with) and go from there. Beats spinning your wheels about it trying to figure him out.

I am "estranged" at the moment and waiting for the court date, so I am pretty much single
I have talked to my ex everyday this week. We have been out to lunch, out to dinner, shopping, and even had a night out at a nightclub. I never knew he could dance! He refused to dance when we were married, so that was a pleasant surprise! He is a Scorpio like myself, so he will NEVER come out and say anything that is on his mind - he expects me to figure it out, so I will have to observe carefully! LOL

Well... maybe he's waiting for you to be legally "free" before he makes his move. When I was separated from my 1st husband I came across a guy or 2 who wouldn't really consider a serious relationship until I was officially divorced. Just be patient with him and time will tell.

Hello Valentine,

It's so wonderful to see you've stopped in recently with an update. I'm so very glad that things are going well for you. Please do continue to keep us posted.

Ok, I have to tell you guys about this recent event, and it is NOT about my ex!

I had a dream about the days of my youth, in other words the "ball park" where everyone in those days hung out all summer long. I played softball for years, as well as, all my childhood girl friends and the boys played baseball because there was nothing else to do! Anyway, I haven't thought about the park for at least 30 years, and it was so strange that I dreamed about it. In my dream, I was reminded of a mutual crush that I and this boy had on each other, but it never amounted to anything. I was confused as to why my attention was being brought to this crush I had years ago. This boy and I had also attended high school together, and the relationship was the same - we kind of admired each other from a distance, but neither of us had the courage to make the first move. So, we graduated high school and never saw each other again.

A few weeks ago, I received an email from an old friend, wanting me to sign up for out "school page" because my 30 year re-union is coming up. I hesitated for awhile, and then I finally signed on to the page. Seconds after I signed on, I got a message. I opened the message, and was floored when I saw that it was from "THE BOY I HAD A CRUSH ON"!!!! (Twilight Zone music in the background) LOL!

I was immediately bombarded by questions from him asking if I was married, did I have kids, where did I live now, etc. He asked for number and since then he has emailed, texted, called several times. On Christmas Day, he sent me a message saying that he was going to his mom's house, which happened to be two blocks from my house, while I was on the way to my mom's house, and we passed each other on the street. We stopped and pulled over. We both jumped out of our cars and ran to each other and hugged for what seemed like hours! He stared at me and all of a sudden, I felt like a nervous kid again. I did not know what to say, and he didn't either - we just continued to stare at each other. We attempted a little small talk, and the pressure got to be so intense, that I told him that I was running late and had to go. He sadly said "ok" and then before I knew it, he leaned forward to hug me again and kissed me . . .and I mean a REAL kiss!

The talking, messaging since that day has become more intense, and we have not gone one day without talking to each other.

We were born 4 days apart, and I am wondering if the reason we are attracted to each other is because of the fact that we are so much alike?

I am submitting our birth info here so that you pros can work your magic on synastry again for me! LOL! Let me know what you guys think!

Me: 11/3/63, Sault Ste. Marie, Michigan at 7:55 p.m.
Him: 10/29/63, Birmingham, AL, at 12:08 p.m.

Wow Valentine! You always have the wildest psychic experiences. Must be all that Scorpio. And even wilder is the fact that the two of you have a lot of conjunctions in your charts, being only a few days apart. I am very curious to see how things progress between you. Please do keep us posted.

You're telling me! People think I am crazy, but this stuff really happens!! Do not know why.

Well, I went to lunch with him today and the attraction was so strong, it was hard to handle. I began to think "what's too good to be true is always just that - Too good to be true!" But I am not so sure anymore. We are finding it hard to separate and there is some talking, but now it is more we already know what the other is thinking. I am starting to feel that he is a lover/husband from a past life because I feel so close to him, and he told me today that Christmas Day was deja vu - he has seen that image in his mind before! Freaky!!!

Although, I found out today that we are not 4 days apart, he is a year older. So, if you get a chance to interpret the charts, make his for 1962 instead of 1963.

I feel like a teenager again!!!

Love Always,
Valentine

Hello Valentine,

To feel like you are back in the springtime days of your life once again is a beautiful blessing to enjoy and treasure.

Hey Venus!

Everything is still going strong In the past few days, I have had my car stolen, then found this morning, along with other weird and freaky things! Something is going on, there is a strange atmosphere around.

Last night, he drove me to see my son and we stepped outside on the front porch. It actually felt like we were teenagers again on a first date with my son "over-looking" and acting like a "father." Crazy!

We have something really special without the need of a chart for confirmation. I just hope it lasts for a while!

Hope everything is good with you

Hi there Valentine,

How have things been going with you and your old friend? Very well and good I hope. That is a bummer about your car being stolen. Thankfully it was found! Hopefully no other strange things have happened since your last post. I hope you'll drop in soon with an update. Until then, take good care.

Hi Venus
Thanks for dropping in and checking on me Everything is going TOO well! Which is a little scary for me, because I sometimes expect the worst or something to happen. You know the old saying "if it seems to good to be true, it is!" We were out with friends a few nights ago, and they were asking us how we ran into each other again. He immediately spoke up and told the whole story and also added, "that first day we saw each other again, it felt like deja vu, I knew that day that I was in love." I have never heard a man come right out and say anything like that before - especially in front of a bunch of people! I was flabbergasted!

I spoke with a psychic friend of mine a few days ago. Her reading was that he has secretly loved me for years and that this relationship would be the best one I ever had. She then gave several details about him that were absolutely accurate. I am still in the state of a "fog" not quite believing all of this. Only time will tell I guess, if it is truly meant to be. So far, however, I am enjoying EVERY minute of it!!!

Hope things are going well for you Have a GREAT week!

Hi Valentine,

I am so happy to hear that things are going very well between you and your old friend. You know that old saying that if you keep expecting the worst, that is exactly what you'll eventually get, so you'll want to keep those thoughts as positive as possible. Keep on enjoying this beautifully loving experience, however it may turn out, and just know that whatever does happen, it's all good and exactly as it's supposed to happen for both of your soul's growth. Please continue to check in and keep us posted.

Just wanted to pop in with an update. Hope every is doing well . Me and my "old school buddy" have spent a lot of time together and last night, he even asked if he could come over and go to Target with me to get dog food! LOL! This past weekend, however, he had made plans to play cards with some friends, so I made my own plans to go out dancing with my friends. Ran into another guy I went to school with at the place we went to dance and he sat down at our table. Someone took a picture of all of us and posted it to Facebook and within seconds, I received a text from my "squeeze" saying that he was on his way to where I was at! He actually showed up there and I was surprised because it was so late. He sat down for a little while, and we danced a few times. I had drank probably one too many and told him I was leaving and that he should go home because it was so late. He insisted on following me home to make sure I got there safe. I started to fight him on this and told him that I would be fine on my own. Regardless, he followed me home and came in. For some reason, I blurted out, "what is it exactly that you want from me??" (Too much alcohol) He raised his voice and said, "I want to spend the rest of my life with you. I would marry you tomorrow, if I knew that is what you wanted, but I don't think you do." (In the process of my third divorce!) I was utterly, completely shocked!!! We did not talk about this incident until a few days later. I told him that I knew he said that for the sole purpose of trying to get my attention, and to forget about it because he really could not have meant what he said. He told me that it might not be the best thing to do for either of us. Now he says that he is not going to say whether he would or would not marry me, but that "the opportunity is there."????????

Hi there Valentine,

I'm so glad you dropped in with an update. I had been wondering how you and your school buddy were doing. I had a feeling it was all going very well. By the looks of things, it sure does seem like he has developed some strong feelings for you. Are yours just as strong for him? Inquiring minds and hearts want to know! LOL Seriously though, I can see why you want to take things reeeaaaallly slooooww and do agree that you should go at whatever pace feels most comfortable and right for you. Besides, you know the saying about good things coming to those who wait. I continue to wish you and your school buddy all the best and I look forward to your next update. Until then, take good care.

Hi Venus!
Thanks for your ALWAYS encouraging words

I have had my issues with this "old and new" person in my life and it has been difficult at times to let this one "in." I do care for him A LOT, and yet I have found myself at times fighting my feelings for him and pretending that this is not really happening and not real. It has been an "up and down" emotional roller coaster for me, but he has not budged an inch! He continues to stand by what he says and feels for me and refuses to give up. This says to me that I at least have to give it a try because I am supposed to learn something here. I know him from another life, I feel this whenever I look him in the eyes and he says the same.

I do enjoy our time together and am very happy he is in my life, but I always worry and wonder what will come of it. He says that I am being "way too cautious" in our relationship, but that is to be expected of me at this early stage I think I am trying very hard to be as "open" as I can be!

Thanks for letting me share everything here. This is a very strange, yet delightful relationship