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#166118 - 01/19/12 09:39 AM Sun Virgo Man... what exactly is he up to here?
lilmizsara Offline
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Hi guys! kinda new here though I've joined for awhile. My name is Sara. It's really nice to meet you all smile I've been interested in astrology for a while already now, however I still suck at reading charts etc. Anyway, on to my story.

This guy is a Sun Virgo, Scorpio Ascen, Cappy Moon, Mercury, Venus, Mars in Virgo - this is what I got off astro.com though I dont know his birth time. I'm a Sun Cappy, Taurus Ascen, Aries Moon, Aqua Mercury, Aries Mars.

We started awhile back (2 years ago) after meeting at some school events in college. I don't know when it started but if I happened to look in his direction, he'd already have his eyes trained on me. And it'd seem like he was staring at me for quite abit already. This staring thing carried on throughout those events, whenever we were near each other, whenever I walked past him..when he was leaving a place I was at, he'd turn round to glance at me before leaving. But whenever we happened to lock eyes, he'd quickly look away. I'd also always find him standing very near me in enclosed spaces like the lifts. However, he tended to ignore me when he had friends around. As I was on the logistics team, I was used to being asked to carry furniture around the school. During those times, he'd appear out of nowhere and help me with them, without saying a word. And I didnt even ask for his help. Like this one incident when I was alone in the corridor, he chose to sit behind me quietly on a bench. And after a team-mate asked me to go get some chairs, he immediately rushed forward and helped me take them all. I did try to speak to him on these occasions, however he was very subduded and quiet and only gave one word answers =/ the conversation usually died after awhile. If I say "thanks" or "hi" or something, I dont really get a response as well... hmm

And at any dances during these events.. if he happened to be dancing very near me, he would totally stop and leave the place...which is strange cause he happens to be quite a dancer and likes showing it off. Anyway, that was that, after those events, whenever he saw me in school, he'd do that same old standing and observing/staring thing or just hang around longer at the place I was seated at.. all from a distance though.

But lo and behold, now we share 2 classes! just last week as I was packing up after one ended, he walked from where he was, stood in front of me for quite abit, after I looked up and realised it was him, we locked eyes for awhile, then he just left! later at the lift landing, he came up and stood really near me, like just behind. He did that this week as well. On both these occasions, he left his group of friends and was alone. And he quietly just stands directly behind my friend and I. seems to be playing with his phone and probably eavesdropping?! ha. I'm of chinese/indian parentage and physically look like neither. at one point in our conversation, my friend suddenly decides to use mandarin to converse with me and i was replying in same, that was the only time he looked up and stared at me. I wanted to speak to him then, but I just didnt know how to start..

he has this tendency to completely ignore me if his friends are around. and I just find his behaviour abit strange around me, considering that he's very high profile in school, is "popular", and pretty outspoken and loud in general. He also seems to interact pretty ok with both guys and girls. He doesn't come across as a flirty, charming, smooth sort, but he can converse and interact. However, he did mention that he used to be very shy, reserved and quiet before he entered college and he wished hecould change that.. shrugs. He usually looks very unapproachable and intimidating. Like, he's not the type to be warm and friendly and smile alot.. so i'm abit scared off by that.

I apologise for this wall of text. if someone could do a better chart reading, that would be great! hah.. I just would like to know what could he be up to... and what I could do from here.. your thoughts?

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#166119 - 01/19/12 09:42 AM Re: Sun Virgo Man... what exactly is he up to here? [Re: lilmizsara]
lilmizsara Offline
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Registered: 06/08/10
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Oh..and may I add. He's been single since forever - typcal of Virgos I guess. What with so much earth in his chart too. And, he seems very private. Like you'd never hear him talk about or mention anything or anyone from his private life - family etc.

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#166148 - 01/22/12 06:19 PM Re: Sun Virgo Man... what exactly is he up to here? [Re: lilmizsara]
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Hello lilmizsara wave and welcome to CE. love That is quite the story you shared about that Virgo man I'm assuming you're interested in? I can tell you that it's going to be very difficult for you to "know what he could be up to" with his having a Scorpio Ascendant. People with Scorpio prominenet in their charts are very private with their thoughts and feelings, but I will say that his staring at you so much is a good indication that he would be willing to share more of himself with you once he gets to know you. His Capricorn Moon is likely responsible for his lack or difficulty in expressing his feelings around you and all that Virgo is behind his self-consciousness and shyness around you, yet it's also why he was so helpful toward you when he saw you needed assistance. People with prominent Virgo in their chart love to be of service to others, especially people they like. If you really like this guy, keep trying to make conversation with him. Eventually, as he gets more comfortable with you I think he'll start to open up and behave around you as he does around others. Please do let us know how things progress. lovelove

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#166152 - 01/23/12 07:24 AM Re: Sun Virgo Man... what exactly is he up to here? [Re: Venus]
lilmizsara Offline
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Registered: 06/08/10
Posts: 3
Originally Posted By: Venus
Hello lilmizsara wave and welcome to CE. love That is quite the story you shared about that Virgo man I'm assuming you're interested in? I can tell you that it's going to be very difficult for you to "know what he could be up to" with his having a Scorpio Ascendant. People with Scorpio prominenet in their charts are very private with their thoughts and feelings, but I will say that his staring at you so much is a good indication that he would be willing to share more of himself with you once he gets to know you. His Capricorn Moon is likely responsible for his lack or difficulty in expressing his feelings around you and all that Virgo is behind his self-consciousness and shyness around you, yet it's also why he was so helpful toward you when he saw you needed assistance. People with prominent Virgo in their chart love to be of service to others, especially people they like. If you really like this guy, keep trying to make conversation with him. Eventually, as he gets more comfortable with you I think he'll start to open up and behave around you as he does around others. Please do let us know how things progress. lovelove

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Hi Venus! Thanks for the reply laugh

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