Hi jackie,
you are married and have two sons, unless you are desperately unhappy and thinking of leaving I wouldn't personally consider avoidance of each other based on your numerical values, a satirical slant absolutely, but true all the same,avoidance is not good for any relationship. However forwarned is being observent and using good judgement, does 4&8 effect the other areas of your life, phone no.car rego. house no.etc, do things "happen on 4&8 days or hours,also the 17/8 will manifests differently than the 26/8, which one is your "old man", and also your son Mr 15, be aware of the warnings and use it to guide your judgement,assess what sort of a 4 you are,are you on the restrictive side, Overseen by some limitation in some way , a 15 year old 6 person may need a lot of space to express himself and lots of verbal/non verbal encouragement, use your sense of detail and fairness as guides when negotiating, (formaly classified as dicipline) remember 6 is synonimous with the power of love through which all things retreat and give way.
Numerology as far as I see it, is a system of precision and great accuracy, with you , the user at the helm, applying flexibility.
Check it out Jackie, if you haven't already done so,Hubby being Day1 and you being name 10/1, with Jackie also exhibiting the 4 are also of interest to the mechanics of your relationships, e.g. How much do you swing towards the need to retreat from society, if a strong swing is there and it is not being realised, the nature of the 1 could create much inner turmoil, possibly resentment, untill the skills of personal expression and perseverence are incorporated into daily living. etc,etc,etc. well all and Jackie i'm off to my bed, 3am again...Bhaggy<><>^^>?