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Witches Take Offense
Chat with Attorney and Practicing Witch Phyllis Curott
Does the blockbuster horror flick The Blair Witch Project put real-life Witches at risk?
Many people think Witches only exist in fairy tales. But the truth is that Witches, also known as Wiccans, are practitioners of a Pagan religion that predates Christianity.
Join us tonight for a live chat with Phyllis Curott, an Ivy League-educated attorney and practicing Witch. She's the founder of one of the largest Wiccan congregations in the U.S. and author of The Book of Shadows: A Modern Woman's Journey into the Wisdom of Witchcraft and the Magic of the Goddess.
Curott's latest mission is to correct the misrepresentation of Witches in the film The Blair Witch Project. "We have already seen an increase in misunderstanding and antagonism toward Witchcraft as a result of this movie," says Curott, who is presently negotiating with the film's distributors.
Moderator at 3:32pm ET
Does the blockbuster flick The Blair Witch Project put real-life Witches at risk? Join us for a chat with attorney and practicing Witch Phyllis Curott tonight at 9 p.m. ET. You can send in questions for her now. (Keep in mind that you won't see your messages until the moderator posts them).
Moderator at 8:49pm ET
Phyllis Curott joins us shortly. Please keep your questions short -- 150 words or less. Thanks. We'll start soon.
Moderator at 9:01pm ET
Phyllis Curott now joins us. Welcome to the chat! Why did you decide to become a Witch and how would you sum up the belief of Wicca?
Phyllis Curott at 9:04pm ET
I think that there's a Witch in absolutely everybody. People find their way to the old religion of the Goddess by many paths. I described the magical circumstances that led to my meeting a coven of Witches in New York City in my book Book of Shadows. It was the last place in the world I would have ever imagined I'd find myself. It turned out to be the most fascinating place, that opened the real world of magic to me.
Phyllis Curott at 9:06pm ET
Contemporary Wicca (Witchcraft) is not a belief system. It's a system of practices -- some ancient, others modern. Their purpose is to enable you to take off the blindfold and see the sacred in yourself, in others and the world around you; to make a connection to that divine energy and to transform your life with it. It's very similar in many ways to Native American spirituality. It is an Earth religion and through the practices we come to experience the divine as everywhere present in the world.
Joanna, at 9:07pm ET
Do people in your town/city know that you are a Witch? Does it affect your clients?
Phyllis Curott at 9:09pm ET
I have been a very public witch for the last 10 years of the 20 years that I've been practicing. Lots of people now know that I'm a witch. I'll give you an example: I was out at my country house and had a wonderful conversation with the head librarian of a rural library who wanted to tell me all about a very magical dream that she had, in which I played a prominent role. The entire staff gathered round as we discussed her dream. Certainly ther are many, many people who don't understand what this is about and are mistakenly frightened. In fact, on my book tour I did receive quite a number of threats. But my experience has been that when people discover what this is really all about, they're completely fascinated.
Phyllis Curott at 9:12pm ET
As far as being a Witch and a lawyer is concerned, I like to joke that the lawyer is the dark side. But in all seriousness, I began my career as a civil liberties lawyer, fighting for social justice -- fighting organized crime in trade unions. Now, 20 years later, I'm using my skills as an attorney to fight for the rights of Witches. I also have a traditional law practice and it is certainly true that I did lose some of
my older, more conservative, male clients. But I gained many more clients, many of them women. But my great love is writing, lecturing and teaching.
Matriarch, at 9:12pm ET
Hello Phyllis, I wanted to know how you can find Witches in your local area. I am very interested in practicing Wicca, but don't know how to get started.
Phyllis Curott at 9:15pm ET
Great question. There are lots of public groups now. One way is on bulletin board of local book stores. The other way is through the Internet. One of the best sites to learn about Witchcraft is "witchvox.com". There's also my Web site, "bookofshadows.net" and I have a wonderful resource list at the back of Book of Shadows which lists organizations, newsletters and Web sites through which local groups can be contacted. Lots of universities also have groups.
Webster, at 9:16pm ET
Hi Phyllis . .I'm a man who has read your book and who thoroughly enjoyed it. You are obviously acting from your heart in this Blair business. Is it satisfying to be making a difference?
Phyllis Curott at 9:18pm ET
I hope I'm making a difference. Only time will tell. And yes, it's a great challenge and can be very frustrating at times. But it's also the most rewarding thing that I could imagine doing. This is a very personal and satisfying spiritual practice that holds answers that we desperately need right now to the problems we face. It's an incredible set of tools that I want the world to have. Thanks for the question.
Christian Soldier, at 9:19pm ET
How do you respond to the condemnation of Witchcraft in the Bible? Since it is the absolute truth, you cannot possibly challenge it.
Phyllis Curott at 9:22pm ET
Oh Christian Soldier! You militarist, you! There are many paths to the divine. The Bible is but one. If it teaches you compassion, tolerance and love of your neighbor, then you are practicing your religion and I praise you. If you are using your Bible as a platform for intolerance, anger you are not practicing your religion and I grieve for you. As far as the reference with regard to the Biblical condemnation of witchcraft, it is a mistranslation on the part of King James which was done for very political purposes. The original Hebrew word was in fact poisoner.
Katia, at 9:22pm ET
How popular is Wicca? About how many Witches do you think are out there?
Phyllis Curott at 9:25pm ET
According to a number of academic studies, Witchcraft and Goddess spirituality -- which is a broader category in which Witchcraft falls -- are the fastest-growing spiritual practices in the U.S. today. Based on those studies, number of practitioners is between 3 and 5 million. This does not include Taoists, Hindus, Native Americans and others with whom we have much in common.
MoonSilver, at 9:26pm ET
Hi, I've been Wiccan for over 10 years, and recently moved to Alabama. Never before I got here have I been hassled by people of other religions. How do you deal with the hostility?
Phyllis Curott at 9:30pm ET
The first thing you have to do is make friends and allies. You should check out the Unitarian Church and probably become a member. You need to look for similar places of community. The Internet is a wonderful tool to help you find folks (other Wiccans) in your area. You have to behave in a way that's sensible, given where you are. That may require you to be more discreet about your worship until the climate changes. But it is changing every day -- tremendously. I did an interview in Biloxi today -- they were terrific; Baton Rouge last week, also terrific. Stay in touch. You need to know you have a network of support no matter what happens. Hopefully people will judge you by who you are, not just by your religion. As friends and neighbors come to know you, they'll come to accept your religion. That's an important way in which we make huge changes at a personal level.
James, at 9:31pm ET
Miss Curott, was it hard for you to "come out" as a Witch, at first?
Phyllis Curott at 9:33pm ET
I made myself sick I was so nervous about it. I decided to go public and -- Poof! -- there was a reporter who wanted to write a story right away. But coming out of the broom closet has meant freedom, empowerment. A Witch cannot live in fear. When you face your fears, you'll find the other side is freedom.
ShadowMoon, at 9:34pm ET
Why all this fuss over the Blair Witch, instead of focusing on more dire issues of discrimination? I don't see why this film is so offensive when we have so many other problems.
Phyllis Curott at 9:37pm ET
I am very attentive to dire problems. I spend a big part of my day dealing with all kinds of dire problems! Why am I trying to get a disclaimer attached to the Blair Witch Project? Very simple. The movie exploits and reinforce the negative stereotype of the Witch as an evil murderer. We all grew up with that stereotype -- Hansel and Gretel and Shakespeare, and now, The Blair Witch Project. Stereotypes that make people afraid have the potential of leading to violence and oppression -- and so they have to be fought. The only way that we're going to change the stereotypes about Witches is by standing up and saying, "No more." It's not hard to understand. If you simply put any other religion in place of the word Witch and you branded that religion with the same stereotype of being murderous and evil, you'd see right away how offensive that would be, and there would be an outcry -- not just from the practitioners, but from everyone.
Aurora, at 9:38pm ET
Why do you think Hollywood and television shows have gone haywire for Witches? And don't some of the inaccuracies they portray perpetuate stereotypes?
Phyllis Curott at 9:43pm ET
I think Hollywood is very sensitive to where the audience is. They're creating product that reflects what's happening at the grass roots -- they're responding to the market. They know there's an audience. And, in fact, ratings are huge. Teenage girls and young women who are a big part of this market share have found the Goddess! And that is very empowering and liberating. With regard to the old stereotypes that we're still seeing -- i.e. that only women are Witches, that they have supernatural powers -- that's just what they are: stereotypes. And that's frustrating. But on the positive side, which is important, these shows (Charmed, Sabrina, Willow on Buffy the Vampire Slayer and Practical Magic) are showing witches as good, as strong and independent young women who use their power to help people, who show them working together. All of those are steps in the right direction.
Alan, at 9:44pm ET
Can you put a hex on my boss?
Phyllis Curott at 9:46pm ET
No. We don't hex. But if you get Book of Shadows you'll find how I dealt with my evil boss. There's a very effective protection, banishing and binding which you may do.
Joanna, at 9:46pm ET
Do you (you personally, not all Wiccans) believe in ghosts/spirits?
Phyllis Curott at 9:47pm ET
Interesting question. I'll be dealing with those spirits in my second book. I've had some extraordinary experiences.
Brigid H., at 9:47pm ET
I'm curious to know how many men practice Goddess Spirituality?
Phyllis Curott at 9:48pm ET
It varies, depending on where you are and which tradition you're in. But overall, men make up about 25-40% of all Witches. And those numbers are growing every day.
Mike from [206.245.181.219], at 9:48pm ET
What do you do that makes you a Witch? What I mean is, do you mix magic potions and cast spells on people? All I know about Witches is from that show in the 60's called "Bewitched".
Phyllis Curott at 9:52pm ET
There's a lot more to magic and being a Witch than casting spells and making potions. The real magic that Witches are concerned with flows from our connection to the divine. The word witch in Old English means "wise one" or shaman. Our spiritual practices are very similar to those of many Native Americans. The easiest way to describe it would be different kinds of active meditations done in the presence of nature through which we become connected or experience communion with the divine. Having done that, your life becomes incredibly magical. So our work is really not about commanding, controlling and manipulating -- the stereotypical image -- but about consciousness, communion, and transformation.
Sig, at 9:54pm ET
What do you think Wiccans can do to combat misinformation about the Wicca Craft?
Phyllis Curott at 9:59pm ET
Everything they possibly can! People need to be who they are. The first step is to come out with those with whom you're most intimate. Through personal contact with you, stereotypical ideas that others may have will be transformed. There's a tremendous amount that can be accomplished at a very personal level. The second way is to be active and vocal when stereotypes are presented in the media. Write down to protesting a soap opera's repeated use of the word "witch" when really they mean "bitch." Write letter, speak out, join Wiccan organizations. If you have an interest in doing interfaith work, working with members of other faith traditions in your community will go a long way toward transforming negative stereotypes. Bottom line: Be who you are. Understand how important what you know is to the rest of the world. Be willing to share it. And never, ever be afraid to stick up for your rights. Things will change. We have a great wisdom that the world desperately needs right now.
Moderator at 10:04pm ET
What does a real Witch do on Halloween? And how do you really dress when you are in full Witch regalia?
Phyllis Curott at 10:06pm ET
I'm cackling ... I love it. Full Witch regalia for me tends to be a really good-fitting pair of blue jeans, a Gap t-shirt and some stylish Joan & David boots. It's not what you look like on the outside, it's what's going on in the inside. Keep it simple, keep it clean. My real preference for ceremonial garb is a nice Georgio Armani when I can get it! I prefer gowns, for rituals --
I've made many of them myself because you can imbue the gown with your own energy by making it yourself. But it's not about wardrobe. It's about what's going on in your
heart and soul.
Phyllis Curott at 10:10pm ET
We generally refer to Halloween as Samhain (the Celtic New Year -- the very magical moment when the door between the worlds opened). It is a very sacred holiday for us, when we honor our ancestors and visit with their spirits. It is the beginning of the dream time, when nothing grows and the earth is still and we enter the sacred space between the worlds to seek visions that will guide us in the coming year.
The stereotypical Witch outfits are all deteriorated remnants of this older, more profound experience of mystery at this time of year.
Moderator at 10:10pm ET
Thank you for joining us today. Any closing comments?
Phyllis Curott at 10:11pm ET
If you have any further questions, please contact me at the web site(www.bookofshadows.net). You may find some of the answers to your questions in Book of Shadows as well.
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Thanks Phyllis!
Bright Blessings,
Carlo