Hi Dave...have a few questions...
I have been married for 18yrs. For the past 5years I would say I have not been happy. In sept/99 I got involved with a boss from work and continued to have an affair for 8months. Until he got caught. His wife found out it was me and came to see me. His marriage has been bad for the last 10years. And he has been married for 30years. I really fell in love with this man, however he is seeking help of a professional for his marriage. (him only) We really had a special relationship and wonder if there is any hope in the future that we might end up together?
Is there something on the stars that tells if things will end possitively for me??
I was born on July16/63 in Kitchener, Ontario, Canada. I don't know the time of birth. He was born on Sept28/48 in Ontario, Canada. Any insight would be appreciated.

Thanks Kathy

Kathy,

What time were you born?

Thanks

Dave

Dave

I will get back to you. Need to find out time of birth.

Thanks Kathy

my time of birth was between7:30pm and 8:30pm
thanks Kathy

Kathy,

I can't do too much about your friend - for one, I need his birth city, and two, it would be nice to have his birth time.

Without a precise birth time for you, I cannot identify the houses the events are going on in, but there are two transits that are going on.

One is that Pluto is squaring itself, and that will bring a transformation about for you - good or bad is up to you. That will last the rest of this year. The other one is that of Uranus conjuncting your natal Saturn, and this one will last into next year, and the issue of freedom/vs/structure/limits will be brought up. Depending on the actual time of your birth, it is happening in either the house of your self, or the house of your values/finances.

I ran your friends chart, using your town and time of birth, just to see if there is anything that is going on that is obvious - mind that I definitely cannot say much more about it than what I am until more information is available.

Uranus is now transiting by opposition his Venus, which makes sense in that he got involved with someone else. That will continue again for all of the same time period as your transit to Saturn. The Saturn Venus opposition is a karmic indicator that you have known each other in a previous life. Now, where his time of birth really makes a difference is in his Moon - it is approaching his Venus Pluto conjunction, and if he was born late in the day, then it is conjunct.

Thanks

Dave

Thanks for your reply Dave....

However I am very new at this stuff and am having a hard time understanding what you are telling me. The possibility of me finding out his birthplace and time are not too good. My mother does not remember the exact time of my birth either. And yes the first time I ever met him I knew there was something there. Anymore insight would be appreciated.

Thanks Kathy

Kathy,

The "English" translation of what I said is basically this. You have a freedom/limit debate going on in your mind - you want to be have some freedom to do what you want, and there is a limit, i.e., your current marriage to what you can do.

Your friend has a desire to break away and find a new love, and I suspect that your relationship with him started quite suddenly, as well as his being caught, and I suspect he wanted to be caught.

Both of those aspects will last the rest of this year, so it could be a while before it is resolved, and I am not going to suggest how to resolve it, for that is up to the both of you. The two of you probably have known each other from a previous lifetime.

The real problem why I cannot say much more is that a lot of the planetary positions cannot be placed unless I have a time and place for both of you. By any chance, is your time on the birth certificate? Can you check with the hospital in which you were born?

Thanks

Dave

Thanks again Dave..
I will do some investigating and check with the hospital.
I'll let you know.

Thanks kathy

Hi Dave!

long time no talk. Have been doing some investigating. Still working on the birth times, however did find a birth city for him.
Chatham, Ontario. Had his year of birth wrong. Should be sept28/47. Does this new info help at all.
p.s. why do you think he wanted to get caught.

Thanks again Kathy

Kathy,

Thanks for the update - in particular, the year will make a difference.
I will get back to you.

Dave

Kathy,

The year of birth did make a big difference. The Uranus on his Venus is not in effect. However, he also has Uranus transiting his Saturn, which is freedom/limits issues - in other words, he want to break free of his relationship with his wife. And this will be going on until late this year - and the issue of whether he will stay married will be resolved, one way or another - that is where having his birth time will make a difference.

Thanks

Dave

Hi Dave

Thanks once again....still working on those birth times. Wanting to break away and actually doing it, we'll see.

Thanks Kathy

Hi Dave.....just thought I would update you on my life situation and was wondering if you could add any insight that would be helpful. On October 5/00 his wife met with my husband and told him the whole story. Yes 6months after the affair ended. As you can appreciate this has opened a whole can of worms for my family. Any idea why this happened. His wife's birthdate is june19/50 and she was born in Hamilton, Ontario. However I do not have a time of birth.

Thanks again......kathy

Kathy,

A couple of things - one is that I no longer handle love questions - Morning Storm on Love Corner now handles them.

Secondly, since there are multiple people involved, I should not have dealt with it in the first place, and I know that Morning Storm will also be reluctant to handle it.

It is an ethical question, about which it has been raised many times since then, and Morning Storm and I agree on this type of thing.

Good Luck.

Dave